By Anonymous - 20/09/2014 15:28 - Sweden - Kung?lv

Today, I looked up my childhood bully on Facebook, hoping she'd gone fat and ugly. Turns out she's drop-dead gorgeous and very successful. FML
I agree, your life sucks 54 144
You deserved it 14 090

Same thing different taste

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FYL because you're still wasting time thinking about the past instead of moving on.

"An ugly personality destroys a pretty face"

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msmedieval 11

This exact thing happened to me. She looked so amazing I was miserable for days. She even had a gorgeous husband, a very beautiful kid & traveled to several exotic locations. I had to block her to save my sanity. I feel for you OP, just keep believing karma will get her eventually.

you should just move on with your life. Don't dwell on the past karma will catch up with her one day. Don't be as low as she was when she bullied you by hoping bad things will happen to her. Be happy and learn from the past OP.

dpook 7

You shouldn't wish bad upon other people. Just worry about yourself

She's not "wishing bad" on anyone. So what if her bully ended up being unattractive? I'm sure someone would still find her attractive since beauty is based on personal opinions anyway. It's not like OP is wishing her to get cancer or something.

OP did say "hoping she'd gone fat and ugly". Ok, maybe a hope is not exactly a wish, but that's splitting hairs.

Well maybe she has depression, anxiety, stress, or some other mental disorder. You just don't know.

She may have changed into a good person. I had an encounter in which a guy bullied me. He realised his mistake and became friends with me

When I started secondary school at an all girl's school at 13, I was bullied by some guys who're 15/16 from the all boy's school down the road from my school (we all shared the same bus) for nearly 3 years. They were really horrible to me (throwing stuff, name calling, nit picking through my Bebo page to find something new to bully me over) and the bus man seen all this and never said anything to them. My mother still to this day doesn't know I was picked on and thought I was "sick" or purposely missed said bus all those times. Even though one of the guys apologised (and even tried to chat me up, and failed) recently, I've forgotten all those boy's names and if I ever came across their pages, I would ignore them for the simple reason that I don't give a rat's ass what they're doing, if they're nice now or whatever else. A horrible time in your life like that should be forgotten about and replaced with happier memories, in my opinion. To be fair, I think the OP was foolish for going onto a past bullies page, it's just going to annoy her.

What's her name. We want to see how hot she is

Why would you do that, OP? I don't know how long i'ts been, but you should let go of the grudge. She won't bother with you any longer so you shouldn't bother with her anymore. By the way, hoping she would have gotten fat and ugly makes you no better of a person than she was. I encountered a few childhood bullies of mine in the past few years and I just ignore them. I don't wish them bad, but I don't wish them good either. I just acknowledge their existance.