By Anonymous - 24/07/2015 16:05 - United States - Jacksonville

Today, I'm grieving over the death of my best friend of 9 years. My mom wasted no time arriving at the conclusion that I must be hormonal and pregnant with his child. Apparently it's not normal for a woman to cry so much over a man, unless they've been fucking. FML
I agree, your life sucks 33 034
You deserved it 1 958

Same thing different taste

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I'm sorry to hear that. That really ******* sucks.

Maybe you should talk to your mom about appropriate behavior after the death of someone close...

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Jeezus. I'm so sorry for your loss.

I'm sorry for your loss op .... But can we talk about the fact that your mothers remark makes absolute no sense. If your friend has been dead for 9 years how could you possibly be pregnant with his child ?

Oh I see now that you meant you've been friends for 9years ok

I lost my best friend of ten years about eight years ago. She was my first friend at a new school, and she was supposed to be a bridesmaid in my wedding a few months later. It is incredibly hard to lose someone you're so close to. I don't know if it'll help at all, but know that it does get easier. You may never stop missing him, and the hole left vacant may never be filled, but you will be able to look back with fond memories and minimal tears. In the meantime, remember the happy times, surround yourself with helpful, understanding people, don't be afraid to grieve in your own way, and stay away from hurtful people like your mother. Find a counselor if you think it'll help. You will find a way to say goodbye and move on eventually. Don't rush it. I'm so sorry for what you're going through, but you will make it to the other side. Trust me.

AJGrote_89 6

My best friend committed suicide 4 months ago, I know how it feels.

When people don't know, they can't understand.