if you didnt realise, he was dating her 5 years ago and she is having an 8 year anniversary with her husband, she cheated on both of them

Well then she should been punched cause obviously shes a ***** if you were with her five years ago but shes been married for eight

What a ****!!!!

Sounds like she's moved on to bigger and better people

I feel like OP is leaving some details out. If he for restrained and had the cops called on him, likely he was also fighting. Usually people don't restrain punchees, no matter how douchey or badly timed his comment was.

She's the dick head in this situation ,,, you are too, but... Less of a dick

Two conclusions: One. She used you and that sucks. Two. You were being immature, and need to move on instead of acting petty. You kinda deserved the punch for starting off that way before knowing she was married 3 years before you got together. Next time, don't be an asshole.

So she cheated on you for 3 yrs, what a bitch

YDI! You're still bitter after FIVE years? Get a life and move on. Yeah, she's a bitch for cheating on her husband, but that doesn't excuse how you acted. It's even worse if you knew she was married back then.

Wow, she cheated on him three years into their marriage? What a bitch. That doesn't make you less of an asshole either though, OP.