By asshole - 02/10/2009 05:34 - United States

Today, I sat to the right of a girl I really like. I passed her a note asking her to homecoming. She read it, then hurriedly passed it to a hideous girl sitting on her left, who said yes, then hugged me. FML
I agree, your life sucks 40 184
You deserved it 12 445

Same thing different taste

Top comments

expen_dable 0

so its wrong to think a girl is unattractive? so do you say "yes" to every guy who asks you out, and you wouldn't dare call a guy ugly or unattractive? I hate this double standard where whiny fat girls say "ALL WOMEN ARE BEAUTIFUL HOW DARE YOU NOT SAY YES!!" but have no problem gossiping about the ugly guy that just tried to ask your friend out. sorry but this isn't a perfect world of flowers and butterflies and unicorns where every girl is a princess.

amanbaby 0

that sucks...she couldve just said no, without doing that.

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db32 6

I think might be the only person who's ok with OP using a note. From jr. high through after college, I always got nervous when asking a girl out verbally to the point of saying something dumb, strange, or just developing a nervous stutter and got rejected just like if I used a note. The note just gets your point across quicker. Online dating is just a slightly more advanced way of sending a note and is, incidentally, how I met my wife. As for all the people saying he should take out the "hideous" girl, why should he? If he wanted to be her friend, he probably already would be so. He's wouldn't be a jerk for not wanting to go with her. Someone said it best already with the popular girl dating the nerd double standard anology. I'll attempt to clarify based on my casual observations of guys as a guy. Excluding family (hopefully), women fall into 2 camps for guys: 1. Women we find attractive deep down on some level. 2. Women we don't who are associated with us through friends, school, work, etc. Women in group 2 may be nice enough people to hang out with, but we'd rather not do it in a date-like/1 on 1 setting b/c it makes us feel a little awkward. Again, just a completely unprofessional observation that I'm not trying to make into a statement on every guy's feeling/opinion and the reason I feel the OP shouldn't feel guilty about not wanting to take a girl he's not attracted to.

528Alice491 3

Well maybe that will teach you to stop judging people by their looks, you stuck up snot. That other girl has feelings too, and not only that, but pretty-girl thinks you're ugly, AND your personality sucks, so you're the worst off out of tr three of you!

hatemyluck 15

What if the girl you liked knew that the ugly girl secretly had a crush on you and thought the note was for her and you're just a jerk for liking girls based on looks?

YDI for passing her a note to ask her out...What did you expect? Be a man.