They'll always find a way. Believe me, they will.

Oh how this issue happens alot. The solution to the problem? Take his computer the first time you caught him watching ****. Buy a desktop and put it where he can be watched at all times. My grandmother did that for me, and bought me the grainiest laptop so that I couldn't access the Internet. We even do the same to my sister, I don't even let her use my own computer unless I'm in my room to make sure she doesnt go on sites she shouldn't be on. You should try it sometime!

Take away the laptop.

He would have just lost the use of a laptop in my house. If he needed it for homework it would be done in front of me. Also call the parents of friends he spends time with at their houses and warn them and suggest they keep a close eye on him and their children. If they don't want him around their kids it's too bad. He earned it.

btw you'll never manage to out do a 11 year old, revoke the computer entirley

I have yet to see a comment questioning why this 11 year old is watching **** at all? Shouldn't he be out on the jungle gym with his little 11 year old friends? Sure having the computer to begin with is a bit much for such a young kid, but come on OP. If he's watching ****, I think you're doing something wrong.

Children these days... They understand the Internet better than their parents.

1.) Why the hell does an 11-year-old need a laptop? I didn't get my own computer until I was 18. 2.) Once a boy discovers ****, nothing's gonna come between him and the ****. It's harmless, really, just so long as you eventually give him the birds and the bees talk about respecting women and all that jazz... It does strike me as a little odd that he's already discovered **** as young as 11, but sexual urges are a normal part of life...

Boys will be boys.

I don't see the problem here. just let the kid watch some ****. he's 11, it's healthy.