I'm a 17 year old male and my plans are to wait for the right person. Last year I dumped my boyfriend because he kept pushing me to do sexual things with him and refused to understand that "I'm not ready" meant no. I have nothing against people wanting sex lives but seriously, you should give your significant other some respect. If they're not ready, then you should respect that. If you push them they could do things they later regret and do you honestly want to become someone's regret? If the answer is "I don't care" or "yes" then I feel sorry for your relationships.

if you love her dont rush her into anything or you will loose her..... she will do more than that when she feels she is ready.....

dump someone because they don't have sex with you? you ppl are ridiculous! you aren't supposed to have sex until marriage! your a bunch of sex crazed pervs

Well, if you have a hand, and an internet connection, what are you worried about?!

maybe shes not comfortable with it? get over it. if it's such a big deal, break up with her

maybe she thinks dicks are yuk, i no some girls who are straight an think that

who gives a dick?? not you!! lolz lolz!!!

maybe she has morals. unlike most of yal.

to everyone who said he should dump her: what the ****. seriously. why would you dump someone just because they wont touch you? thats the stupidest thing ive ever heard. sure, according to social norms, after a year youd think something wouldve happened, but guess what? not everyone likes or is comfortable with what you like or are comfortable with and not everyone acts on social norms. stop assuming they either do or should. to the op: talk to her. she has her reasons for not touching you, whatever they may be. if its something ridiculous (eg, "i only touch penises with roses growing out of them"), then yeah, maybe you should move on. but my guess is that she has some sort of legitimate reason, like shes just not ready or shes waiting for marriage. you said she touched you once on purpose, so im guessing either she didnt like it, she feels guilty, she felt pressured, whatever. but talk to her before you go bitching about her to a bunch of strangers on the internet.

dude same story but I've shagged my gf and I'm fourteen op is a loser we are such pimps