I advise you to check out Mystery Method and David D'angelo (but the former is way more important). It teaches you never to be classified as the 'gay friend' and pretty much teaches you how to get laid. Highly recommended, got me out of the situation your in actually. Then you actually take it out on the bitch when she falls in love with you and you break her heart because you have so many options.

people: STOOOOOPPPP COMMENTING ON THIS NOW. it's too ridiculous. 1. She called you gay. She said she didn't want to do anything that night. Get the hint. SHE DOESN'T LIKE YOU. She has that right. She was being nice. Would it have been better to say in front of everyone that she doesn't like you. No. She was nice about it. Stop crying. 2. She's probably hot. Your best friend thought so too. She's not into you. She's into him. He's into her. Stop being a **** block. They were at a party and physcially attracted to each other. Big whoop. You're not 'madly in love'. You're in puberty. It happens; hormones, etc. Next hot girl in your class will be your next 'love of your life'. I wish you the best of luck. And stop being akward.

The 'girl you're in love with' is a *****. You can do way better.

ur in love with a bitch who wouldnt even kiss u, but sleeps with ur best friend? not worth it

dude, i feel ya that's the kind of shit that happens to me, but not that bad

A desire on your part does not create an obligation on her part. That is to say, your "love" for her does not create any obligation on her part to date you or sleep with you. Unless you're dating, or she led you on (neither of which happen to be true in this case), sleeping with someone else instead of you doesn't make her a bitch. Rather, she seemed to be doing her utmost to let you down gently. It's a matter of deciphering girls' language. In general, saying "I don't want to do anything with anyone tonight" translates into "I don't want to do anything with you tonight". On the subject of your best friend, why should he be obligated to keep his hands off a girl who clearly isn't interested in you? It's certainly not the case that she's your girlfriend or you have a legitimate shot with her. If anything, you could get some dating tips from your friend. By the way, don't pay attention to some of the above posters whining about how girls don't like nice guys--a little bit of reflection will show that most people who make this sort of complaint aren't particularly nice themselves.

You're better off without her and your supposed best friend. I wish you the best of luck in finding a nice girl worth your time and that you aren't so scarred by this that you hurt that nice girl you find eventually.

shes not worth it. fawk that shit.

I'm 19 and me and my friends have played spin the bottle within the past year. haha god, it's not like only 12-year-olds play it. anyway, she's a bitch, as you already know. not all of us girls are evil ****** like her. :]

In response to #109, sometimes a good friend who knows you're interested in someone will back off. Or at least talk to you about it before they try to hook up with the person you're interested in as well. The OP's "Best friend" is still a selfish douche. Now, it's quite obvious that the girl involved wasn't aware of the OP's feelings for her and was interested in his friend and the OP wasn't aware of this. The only bitchy thing she did was assume he is gay and announce it to a group of friends--which is still rather bitchy. I believe the OP is better off without the best friend and the girl and take some time to find himself a girl who will see him for who he is and really cares. It will take time but I wish him the best of luck.