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Same thing different taste
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I don't need to see this
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Not coming out yet, sorry
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Show it anywayOp, you need to get her help.
That's a terrible thing to say! Do you even know what emotional trauma people go through which leads them to cut? I am personally very happy that she's stopped, and I am sure her friend will be able to help her in this situation.
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Show it anywayyou got guts man. I like it
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Show it anyway#57 N/A
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Show it anywayConsequences of serious FML's on a site meant to be funny. Either you stop posting somber FML's or don't take the jokes too seriously.
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Show it anyway#57 I found that funny. And totally appropriate.
Oh so I show the guys and get -200 likes, you point it out and get +65, this site is messed man
Also, don't be judgemental assholes people, I went through some insane depression and have cut before, don't assume people are being jerks, this site is to let off steam and laugh, just be chill about shit, don't let it get to your heads, just have fun
wow harsh
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Show it anywayYou just said it. LOL.
#20- Yeah, "Oops". I bet your comment was a complete accident... -_-
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Show it anyway#37- #10 said nothing offensive though...
I'm completely lost with all of the above comments ^ get your shit together guys
Nice one *high five*
Better to break the news to her now over Ben and Jerry's and romantic comedies rather than have her figure it out alone.That's what best friends are for; there for the good, bad and ugly.
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Show it anyway....uh, she can't, and in trying, feels like a massive failure and goes back to more self destructive behaviour, perhaps even killing herself in the process. Not the happy ending Op probably wants for her friend. :p
Maybe introduce her to some people or go out together to try and meet some guys or pout out other guys. But I say you should tell her he's gay...the sooner the better.
I really feel for you. I've been in a similar situation and your friend needs help and support. You are a good friend for caring, she obviously trusts you if she feels comfortable talking about it. Best wishes.
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Show it anyway#THEN.#THIS.#WOULD.#WORSE.
alternate caps. much worse
It's because on some phones the period is next to the spacebar.
Well 114 it's called proof reading.
I think I may have killed some brain cells reading these painfully joking comments that mimic about spelling, grammar and punctuation. Good job everyone! :P
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Show it anywayYou must have missed that day of primary school when they taught that "knives" is the plural of "knife".
A while back I used to self harm by burning myself. I threw away all my lighters and matches to try and stop myself, but after a while I turned to cutting. Getting rid of what she uses to self harm won't help.
#24, agreed. After my father passed and my ex boyfriend sexually assaulted me, I spun into a dark hole of depression and self harm. My friends tried taking things away but when you're in that mindset, you find ways to get around it. I found a round skipping rock once and used that. A freaking round rock. It's almost like a drug, just taking away a drug cold turkey usually won't solve the problem. You've got to actually be there for them and show them their self worth.
As much as it would pain her to find out, she has to know. It would be far worse for her to think that there's a possibility that he could be interested in her, and then figure out that she was being lead along by her best friend. While it may seem like a cruel thing to do (especially after she just stopped cutting herself)...the alternative could have worse implications. But perhaps try to help her become interested in someone else before breaking the news to her. Better a gentle letdown than a huge one.
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Better to break the news to her now over Ben and Jerry's and romantic comedies rather than have her figure it out alone.That's what best friends are for; there for the good, bad and ugly.
That's a terrible thing to say! Do you even know what emotional trauma people go through which leads them to cut? I am personally very happy that she's stopped, and I am sure her friend will be able to help her in this situation.