Lately I think people just throw in random words into their FMLs. I'm sure your dad didn't use the word loser, you came to that conclusion after what he said. Do something about it.

He's just looking out for you (:

With the national unemployment rate at 9.1 percent, be glad you have a job! There are people that can't even feed their families and you have a job because you would eat too much otherwise.

That sounds exactly like something my dad would say to me.

Aw :(

he's a good dad! concerned for your health :) and taking u into an environment where u can be more social. he cares. just doesn't want u to know that!

At least he's honest

maybe you should fond some friends

I think that's his way of turning you into man, real friends are hard to find, not surprise if you don't have any.

that's a blunt way of putting it but i agree with your dad.