How is this a FML, sounds like a typical marriage to me. Have any of the people who've commented so far been married for over 5 years? Over 10 years? 50% of marriages end in divorce, and I doubt it's because of the amazing sex they're having on a daily basis. Also, as many people mentioned, there can be various reasons why this situation arose in the first place, so unless we know more about it, I doubt we can determine the outcomes of this relationship.

Okay, just to clarify...I am a woman, was married for 3 years(together for 5) when this happened. The Doctor has you fill out your personal info if you are new in which I answered yes to being married...and no to being sexually active...Then he goes over the info with you...FYI it was me who wanted the sex!

And FYI #2 to say marriage is about love is very naive. There has to be so much more or else I could be married to my best girlfriend....HEllo!

#31 I'm asexual and it's really awful for people to say that there is something wrong with you when you know there isn't. Just picture the type of person you are not attracted to, then apply that to everyone. Granted, if someone used to have those kinds of feelings and wants to get them back, that's when you do the hormone testing and such. But with most ace's, you find out the same way you do if you're straight, gay, or whatever.

#33 - I wouldn't. =)

wow OP, what is this crap you're spewing out? if you don't love someone, you shouldn't be married to them. this is a case of "no shit, sherlock." love = successful marriage. seems like you should have thought this through more carefully before getting married

#45 - She never said she didn't love him. L2Read. Where did she say that? She said there needs to be -more- than -just- love which is very very true.

I've heard this one before... funnier every time I hear it!

Wow #45 you are a jackass! You must be one of those BOYS who doesnt listen to a woman...obviously, I mean you can't even read! Did you read what I wrote? Or are you being defensive for another reason? Grow up! And yes I got married with certain issues overhead but I thought they would get better! So why dont you stop being judgmental...you never know what YOUR life might bring! I do not know much about being asexual so maybe he is...something to look into. At least I can learn from the situation. Thank you #46 for backing me up!

you ****** her riiight???