not sexually active? you just lie there?

#51 your reply doesnt deserve to be dignified and I should have never dignified #45... Anyway, #50 THANK YOU and I tried to initiate all the time...This is an issue he has had trouble with since before he met me. I thought things would get better, and I think they did a little...but he never tried to get help no matter how many times I brought it up or cried over it. I think along the way, the feeling and hope you once had dissipate into almost nothing. What a wonderful guy but those feelings for him arent there anymore.

Aw, definitely an FML moment.. that sucks.

#8: Screw you. I'm a guy and I want to find someone to settle down with, because I'm tired of the teenage drama bullshit. @OP: The classic response would go like this: 'Are you married'? "Yes." 'Are you sexually active?' "...I'm married."

well first of all why is it an FML if you are not ashamed of being married and still being a virgin. honestly it makes no sense to be in a marriage or of a relationship of that status and not have had that connection with your spouse, isnt that more the reason why people do get married?

awwww :-(

#55 are you serious? I'm hardly a virgin. Did you not read the thread you idiot?! ANd #54...I dont want to say that to the Dr....I want to be married to someone who has the same sexual appetite that I do and therefore, there wouldnt be a reason for that answer or an FML!

That's pretty much how it works. You get married, adn you can piss sex goodbye for the rest of your life. Once that ring goes on your finger, you're f***ed. FYL indeed

Wait, i just read the whole thread. I take only half of what I said back.

I agree with starbird, it takes A LOT more that love to have a successful marriage/relationship.