#11, I'm sorry you had to go through that.

That sounds awful. Would you be able to explain what you mean in terms of how OP's wife might be abusing the son, as I don't see the connection between abuse and the mother getting mad about **** in this fml?

Because **** is lusting after another woman, that is cheating. And cheating leads to divorce.

...No, cheating is when you go out and have sexual and/or romantic affairs with someone who isn't your spouse without their consent. If merely lusting after someone is cheating, then everyone cheats on everyone.

@17 I would also consider sexting other people or cyber sex cheating, but just **** is definitely not cheating.

**** is a visual aid to release the sexual libido...

I believe cheating is when one person in a relationship has contact or a connection to someone in a sexual or emotional way. I can assure you that OP doesn't have either of those connections with the **** stars he watches.

Didn't say that was a good reason. That was the reason I was divorced. I also know other guys who's wives gave them the choice. Stop watching **** or they would leave. I didn't get that choice, just divorced for "cheating".

That's really sad. Shouldn't you have known your ex-wife was that way before you married? I certainly knew about my husband watching ****. I certainly don't think it's cheating, especially the way we use it. Sorry you had to go through that.

Good for you, #43. Your ex sounds like a total self righteous bitch. I wouldn't ever trust such person, she was either religious nutjob, plain nuts (being jealous because of ****, really?) or used that just as an excuse. In any case, congrats on not having her aroumd anymore.

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She forgot how old he was 2. Nope. Has Self esteem issues. 3. Because She didn't consult him first!

Your wife is crazy 43.

If she gave him a choice to stop and he refused it is understandable , think of it this way. You walk into your wife watching a video of naked men as she masturbated , would you ask her to stop? It's not jealousy it's just if you love someone so much you married them you have the right to be annoyed when they are masturbating to other people/watching other people nude.

11 is a little young to be curious about ****.

@20 Some people start developing early. It's not unheard of for kids that young to be curious about ****.

I had friends who were pregnant at 13... 11 is a great age to talk about sex.

yes talk about sex. that's completely different than **** watching at 11.

It disappoints me but my mom's friend has a granddaughter who was 10 and started sleeping around with 20 year olds and all of her friends do to it's sad how many kids do those things

That's something that needs to be brought up to the police, like yesterday.

I dunno, I found out about **** around age 9. I didn't really know anything about what I was feeling at the time, but in my teens I educated myself and didn't have sex until I was 17 so it isn't ALWAYS awful.

At that age it's not like they're watching just to get off, they're mainly looking because they're curious about anatomy and what sex is because no one will shut the hell up about it. They're more so studying it than using it.