By Anownimous - 18/09/2015 19:51 - United States - San Francisco

Today, my 50-something coworker followed through on his threat to file a defamation lawsuit against me. All because I jokingly said "pedo" after he bragged to everyone that his girlfriend is a smoking hot 19-year-old. FML
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Same thing different taste

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Well, if they've been dating very long, then technically you'd be correct!!

Are you sure it came across as joking? I know we all make mistakes and it happens to all of us - things can just come out wrong and you don't realize it. Either way, that's a bit ridiculous as a course of action for him to take.

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locustbb 9

Won't matter as long as there is not any tangible harm from your comments.

Pedo is an extremely loaded word that shouldn't be tossed around lightly as a joking insult, so I don't blame your coworker.

NodakN8V 25

This is where the country is failing. People need to lighten up. It's a joke not a dick don't take it so hard.

I'm assuming your co worker was never really a close friend in the first place, so it is strange/awkward on your part to just jokingly say "pedo". I could see why he would feel embarrassed, but there's really no need for him to respond like that.

I am probably gonna get downvoted, but YDI. I am married to a man 19 years older than me, I was 23 when we met (now 25) and I still hear that "pedophile" comment. It sucks.

I feel for ya, it has the joint insult of comparing you to a prepubescent child who can't make their own decisions and calling the man you love a criminal. Personally I think 19 is a lot different to 23, but even then 'pedo' is too strong, at the most it's worthy of a 'hey man what are you doing there you're 50'.

Op, like many other see's a problem with this. Christ, he's antique, comment was said to his face, Truth hurts... But lawsuit really. FYL

Um.. I think the more appropriate terms here is sugar daddy and sugar baby. Both are grown, consenting adults in this situation

GoogieWithers 22

Never joke about someone being a pedo, could ruin someone's life if people thought it was the truth and it wasn't. Sounds like he is just a sad, older man trying to recapture his youth.