By Cereal_mistress - 07/10/2013 18:54 - United States - Sonoma

Today, my boyfriend and I went to the doctor's for an ultrasound, as I'm 7 months pregnant. Then he went home and took his wife out to dinner for her birthday. FML
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Nightwing98 22

Calling him your boyfriend and then saying he has a wife implies you know and are fine with him cheating. No sympathy for you.

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Welshite 39

Cheater; I can't see how you deserve sympathy. His wife needs to know.

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grrhelpme 12

Sorry but I think ydi. however I feel sorry for your baby, that'll be a messed up relationship.

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jess_wileyy 12

people like you that do this disgust me. why the hell would you let him do that?

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mdw7 12

How about, don't have kids until you're married. Then this wouldn't be a problem. YDI, OP. Close your legs and start respecting yourself.

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Lyric97 4

Okay, these people are pissing me off. Not ALL cheaters are terrible people. Some people get caught up in stuff and make mistakes. Some admit to it and try to fix things, others don't. Don't claim they're all ******. And OP, I'm sorry for these people treating you so terribly. While you shouldn't have run around with another woman's man, I'm sure these harsh words aren't helping you feel any better. You probably already feel pretty bad, especially since you're pregnant and not only is that gonna be a problem in the future, I'm sure those emotions and hormones and whatnot are a problem now. Good luck with the baby. I'd suggest talking to this 'boyfriend' of yours and trying to sort the situation out; it's better to 'fess up and try to fix it than it is to cover it up, cuz it'll almost always come up eventually anyways.

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LolAtMyPosts 10

To be honest, I think people are angry about the fact that she came on here looking for sympathy. Mistakes are a part of life, but the fact that she's still in a 'relationship' with him even after she is aware she is his mistress does indicate she has a lack of morals. *****: A person considered as having compromised principles for personal gain. Kinda fits the situation here.

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Narcisse_fml 25

Whether or not she knew he was married when she started sleeping with him doesn't matter now. The fact that she referred to him as her boyfriend means she's still with him, even though she KNOWS he's married. It's really hard to feel sorry for her. Put yourself in the wife's shoes. How much sympathy would you have for your husband's pregnant mistress? I seriously doubt you'd be concerned about her feeling "pretty bad" when you learn that she was sleeping with your husband, knowing he was married.

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sarsh_34 4

cheating is cheating. there is no explanation you can make up to make it seem okay. when you cheat, you know in your head how wrong it is.

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ksks1234 33

That is absolute bull. I have cheated in the past and I never had "caught in the moment" emotions or whatever else. I did it because I was being a bitch and trying to have complete control. I have also had the chance to be a mistress, but, once again, I have never been "caught up in the moment" to be the mistress. You know exactly what you are doing when you cheat.

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deepntough 4

U knew he was married n still ****** him, shame on u

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TheTruthIsHarsh 4

93, there is NO acceptable reason for cheating, whether they try to fix it afterwards or not. People should know cheating is wrong. It's a very simple concept. If anyone is too stupid to lack the ability to discern right from wrong, it doesn't excuse reprehensible actions.

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knoxxx 22

I agree with most comments in that OP should probably not still be dating the father of her child, but all the **** shaming is appalling. I'm pretty sure the person at fault here is the man who started dating someone else while he had a wife (and perhaps family), and then got his girlfriend on the side pregnant, and is still dating her while married. We don't know at what point OP knew he had wife. And it's probably really difficult for her to decide whether or not his presence as father is worth his screwed up relationships with everyone else. So I don't care how many down votes this gets, I think most of you are being ridiculous.

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love_me_electric 20

Agree with you. The husband is the one who is really in the wrong here. HE is the one who made a conscious decision to cheat on his wife. There is a good chance OP didn't even know she was "the other woman" until she was already pregnant.

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ButterflyLadyBug 14

they are both wrong . the husband and his mistress . ESPECIALLY if she knew he was married and continued to **** him . if she was dating him , got pregnant and then found out still doesn't excuse her . seven months is a long time to tell someone "**** you" . no one's sex is that great that I'll willingly become someones side piece and that's exactly what she did . pregnant or not . there are plenty women that live their lives as single mothers and are damn good at it . it seems to me that OP is holding onto false hope that he'll "eventually" leave his wife and this fml is just her jealousy that he doesn't spend nights with her but with his wife . she is wrong . he is wrong . the only victims here are the baby and this man's wife . f their lives . she deserves it .

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