Wow give her a break. We don't know the whole story. I was dating someone for a whole year that was married and going through a divorce. Granted she bailed on me after a year but that's not the point. Fact of the matter is you don't control who you love, you don't control who loves you. Sometimes what seems like a healthy relationship is really a bad twist of fate for one of them in it. Long story short, shit happens, from one scorned heart to probably another best of luck to you.

How the **** is that ******* up your life OP Ur the one who caused it and u allowed him to cheat with u

If there's one thing I can't stand. It's adultery. It pisses me off. I'm sorry op.

It is OPs responsibility to not romantically pursue married men, as much as it is the husband's responsibility to honor his vows by not cheating on his wife. Cheating doesn't happen in a vacuum, it takes two [or more] to make that happen. It is obvious OP specifically goes after married men just by looking at her user name Cereal_Mistress. Which also leads me to believe this is not a husband in an Open Marriage. So even in the absence of more information or the back story I will say without a doubt that OP is a classic example of a home wrecker, and calling her a **** isn't out of line either. Both OP and the cheating d-bag are lower than pond scum in my book. You both deserve every negative consequence of your affair. That poor child on the other hand does not deserve the emotional hell that it will be born into, nor does the wife deserve to have her world shattered and family broken, but too late for that. Ugh, I think the fact that OP posted here for sympathy was what really tipped the scales in the "B--ch You Effing Deserve It" category for me.

You poor girl keep your head up and put ur "boyfriend" on child support ASAP also think about the example your going to be showing your child . Everything you do they are watching if this isn't what you would want for your child then you have some thinking to do so YDI but FYL

I grew up being the son of a mother who's been the "other woman" for over 12 years. I couldn't muster up respect for her until I was an adult. Good luck raising a kid that will respect you.

sorry boo that aint yo boyfriend

Hey, we dont know the whole story. Maybe when they met he was single and they had sex and she got pregnant then he met some girl and married her and is now two timing the wife. It doesnt mean its HER fault, she also may not have known to begin with or a lot of other factors.

You clearly knew this man was married and yet you still chose to mess around with him... way to keep it classy! I don't have sympathy for people like you.

So you are knowingly messing around with a married man, and want sympathy?