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Also, #39: relationships are presumed closed until proven open. You gotta check with your partner if you're gonna have an open relationship. If that isn't done, then your partner has every right to feel possessive if you're with someone else. On the other hand, it appears the OP is the other woman. If the OP's partner is in an open relationship with his ACTUAL girlfriend, then there's no harm in the OP's telling her about the OP's partner's "infidelity." If not, then the cheating bastard ought to lose them both.
#43 lol I was just trying to explain how i understood that comparing the sentences... sorry if you didnt got it, but i wasnt trying to dodge anything... ^^ It just seems that there's a problem in the translation
Oh i know how that feels a little over a year ago i found out that my bf of half a year had another gf. And that I was the other woman. But yea you want to let her know cause i didnt (it didnt even occure to me i was so upset) and she hates me now and got even more hurt than i did in the end. Def break it off and let her know that you were just as oblivious as her.
Notice how he said "probably"? Maybe he got so caught up in the moment, he totally forgot he was with her, and that it was someone else. Guys fantasize about that kind of stuff all the time. The OP never said it actually was another girl. Don't jump to so many conclusions.
yeah, definitely let the other girl know. that way, you're not the bad guy, HE is. that's the problem with a lot of these situations - the girlfriend will automatically put all the blame on the "other woman", when the person at fault is the jackass who is seeing both of you at once. (although, if the "other woman" knows he's cheating, obviously she's at fault too) you guys will probably become friends lol
Lol, I can't wait to see the FML: Today, I felt lonely and decided to call my boyfriend for some playtime just to find out he was having fun with another girl. FML
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Aww, honey. I'm sorry.
OOps. Sounds like a communication error. The way your write this, it clearly sounds like you didn't realize he had another girlfriend and honestly had no idea that you were the 'other woman'. I hope you left right then and there. If not, I hope there's some way that you can get her number, call her up, and let her know that until 'now' you were 'the other woman' and that you're very sorry because you had no idea. Make it clear that it wasn't your fault and that you didn't know but that you wouldn't be seeing him anymore. Make it clear to her that he doesn't deserve to see EITHER of you anymore.