By chunky monkey - 14/03/2016 18:26 - Ireland - Dublin

Today, my boyfriend of a year and a half informed me that he had "accepted" my stomach, even though it didn't conform to his "preference" for a flat stomach. He then added that his acceptance doesn't extend to my "chunky thighs". FML
I agree, your life sucks 23 170
You deserved it 3 215

Same thing different taste

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tell you boyfriend that you "accept" his small dick even though it is your preference for a large one

Tell him that he can accept that he's single, then. No reason to say those things except to be an asshole.

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anna31899 16

And that's when you dump his sorry ass

then he should "accept" the fact that he is now single.

Hey op just remember, thick thighs save lives! And there is nothing wrong with a girl who has a bit of padding, just the better to cuddle with!

Tell him that his "acceptance" offends you.

silverbane27 13

It's good that he feels he can be honest with you and bring up something that is bothering him rather than lie or act like it doesn't bother him while slowly getting distant over time . There is nothing wrong with having a preference for what you find attractive

Yeah, but it's not cool to tell someone that they're willing to lower their standards for you. There are much better ways for her boyfriend to express what he was feeling.

graphicstyle7 17

No, there is absolutely nothing wrong with having a preference, but it sounds like this is an extremely destructive way of having that preference. He could 1. Get out of this relationship and find someone he's more attracted to, sad, but honest and direct., 2. Encourage her to exercise more in a positive way, for example, "Hey, you know, you're beautiful, let's go to the gym together!" or 3. He could stay silent and accept that he has flaws, she has flaws. But instead, he's offering this criticism as if her goal is to conform to his wants in all things. That's so many kinds of wrong.

drop that piece of shit like a dead decaying rat

c00kie14 11

I don't know how you can still be with him after he said those things to you. I hope you find some self worth, dump him and find someone that deserves and loves you just the way you are.