By chunky monkey - 14/03/2016 18:26 - Ireland - Dublin

Today, my boyfriend of a year and a half informed me that he had "accepted" my stomach, even though it didn't conform to his "preference" for a flat stomach. He then added that his acceptance doesn't extend to my "chunky thighs". FML
I agree, your life sucks 23 170
You deserved it 3 215

Same thing different taste

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tell you boyfriend that you "accept" his small dick even though it is your preference for a large one

Tell him that he can accept that he's single, then. No reason to say those things except to be an asshole.

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Although he is a dick for saying it like that he could just be trying to express his eventual lack of sexual interest in you if you don't lose weight. If you have similar expectations you should make them known. Nothing wrong with expecting things from your partner. It is true you accept the person for their flaws but that doesn't give your carte Blanche to ignore them and not improve yourself. You should want to be better for yourself because you want to be the best for your partner. If your boyfriend doesn't make you feel that way then you should find someone who does. That would be the correct reason to "dump" him. Sometimes the truth is hurts but if you can't hear it from the person you love who can you hear it from.

How do you know that changing her body would be "improving" it? Expressing your concern over someone's weigh is incredibly delicate and this guy didn't handle it well at all. And for all we know her thick thighs can be because of muscle or because she has that whole thick thighs, big butt thing going on.

Let him "accept" a swift kick in the testicles. You deserve someone better.

silverbane27 13

Returned by a quick slap to the face

cuponator3000 11

Hopefully ex boyfriend soon, or you guys have some work to do! I hope you end up happy OP

what a jerk. you deserve better op. kick that ass hole to the curb!

LostCosmo 5

Lose weight and dump him. You could always fix your weight problem but you can't fix him.

I've been with guys that will say things like this jokingly. I laugh, but it still kinda hurts.

What the hell? Get rid of that asshole. No one needs that in their life

BeccaHart 9

wow well if he can accept your body then why should you accept him find someone who will actually love you all of you

rapunzel13 11

Yass!!! For real I've been picked on most my life for how I look(I'm somewhere in between fit and not) but I decided one day to say screw all of you I like me and I only want to change if its for the better. In the end not only am I ok with me,but I found someone who loves me for me. You go #86 btw