Religion = Stupid.

Wow, you checked his email? Lame.

Let me tell you this, anyone who is willing to lie like that to get out of relationship is a coward and isn't worth being with. Let's just say god did you a favor.

FYL today maybe, but you should already feel relieved to have gotten away from that guy.

This one persons ridiculous excuse to break up shouldn't reflect organized religion in any way. This isn't a problem with organized religion; rather, it's a problem that this person has.

He gave you a lame excuse, but I'm still not seeing this as a FML. From the way you worded your post, it sounds like you decided to snoop through his email after he'd broken up with you, and found that he's already dating someone new (and not that you were cheated on), right? If that's the case, that's more of a YDI for snooping and not liking the fact that you found what you were looking for. As for the privacy vs. having the rights to check a significant other's email thing: I give my passwords out willingly to those that I trust (which includes my close friends as well), but I'd still be pissed to have someone I'm in a relationship with monitoring my email because they didn't trust me. I don't view it as any different than going through another person's journal, regular mail, etc. To me it isn't a matter of hiding or not hiding anything; it's a matter of granting me my privacy while trusting that I wouldn't hide anything. And yes, this goes both ways for me. I have no reason to want to go through another person's email, and if I ever did distrust a s.o. that much, I think the relationship would need a lot more fixing than snooping could do.

Stalker

Even if it was while they were together, it's still invading someone's privacy and disrespectful. Unless the significant other is totally okay with their partner looking at emails, it shouldn't be done. Sure, in this case the end result was that the guy was cheating and disrespecting her...but two wrongs don't make a right and sneaking peeks at your partner's emails is definately a wrong.

**** off, people can reply to whatever post they want.

so you admit to committing a federal crime?