By anonymous - 04/07/2012 14:45 - United States

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Today, my boyfriend proposed. Two hours later I get a text from my ex announcing he has just been diagnosed with chlamydia. I now have to explain this to my fiancé. FML
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1) He's your ex 2) He has an STD 3) He could have given it to you while you were together It seems pretty damned easy to explain unless I'm missing a step... 4) You're still sleeping with him

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Come on sweetheart, the condom thing never fails.

unknown_user5566 26

Men show symptoms, though. I doubt her ex dealt with the symptoms for months or years before telling OP.

1crabbygirl 10

Get tested immediately. I don't necessarily trust the ex, and you need to find out if you actually contracted it. Plus if you are having unprotected sex with everyone, you need to let your fiancé know it wasn't just sans condom with him

redhedsaysrawr 18

What is this "Abstinence" you speak of?

Would it not be sensible for people to get tested for every new partner? It shows basic care and respect, and it's really not that inconvenient to do.

I'm guessing you're worrying because you used to sleep with him while you two were dating. Not because you're cheating on your fiancé with him. So FYL.

Uhm why should that matter to you? You had sex with him recently?? YDI

Chlamydia doesn't always show symptoms with females. So she could have easily gotten it from when they were together

Depends. He could have got the symptons just after they broke up, but not worked up the nerve to tell her until now; at which point, OP and her fiance could have been together for a while.