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I would advise you don't let them meet your friend in the future. If they have never met and still end up with the same thing happening then your friend must be doing something...
I don't think keeping her future boyfriends from ever meeting her best friend is exactly the answer. If she has a truely decent guy who is actually into her then he won't leave her for her best friend, even if her best friend is hitting on him (in which case that "best friend" has got to go).
Unless you believe in that old "hos before bros" philosophy, you need to dump your "best friend." Find an ugly girl with a nasty personality to be your BFF and you'll suddenly be the "pretty" and "nice" one in the room. And if weight is an issue, finding fat friends in easier than dieting ;)
You didn't say whether or not your BFF took your BF up on his offer. If she told him to take a hike, BF is not for you. If BFF did date BF, shame on her!
How does your friend react? Is she doing anything (knowingly or not) to cause this.
Maybe you are attracted to the wrong guys? Try flying solo for a while to re-prioritize your attractions, this can happen to a lot of girls. You may be attracted to guys who wouldn't want you physically or emotionally. Maybe even see a therapist to help you find new attractions. I have friends who do this too.
Have you met Ted? You might be dating his future wife.
Real friends don't date friend's ex partners
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Sadly, I think you may be better off with a new best friend. Or at least keeping the current one far away from future boyfriends!
Her friend might actually be doing her a favor by getting the scumbags to go to her instead...