so get a grooms cake too

BE HAPPY !! you could have found out she was a selfish b*tch after you had kids and were then stuck with her....

She obviously didn't love you that much if something as insignificant as a cake got in the way of your engagement.

aren't you glad? she sounds like a selfish, inconsiderate ungrateful bitch....find someone who will appreciate you and really love you.

On the bright side, this was probably an indicator of what marriage with her would have been like. She seems to be a controlling bitch, I believe you probably dodged a bullet with this break up.

I'M allergic to chocolate too, when i was over my sisters for her birthday i turned around and since her boyfriend thought i wasn't eating it because i was on a diet. he thought it would be funny to stuff it in my face. i spent the rest of the evening in the hospital. anyways thank god you found out she was a total bitch before it was to late.

... Why didn't you just compromise and make one of the tiers chocolate, and the other two vanilla? Or something similar... Unless she wanted the icing chocolate. Then you could do white chocolate icing on her chocolate layer, so it matches. It's really not difficult to pull off.

Well if she is willing to call off marriage over cake, then she did you a favor. How long would the relationship last anyway if she is willing to call off life changing decisions over something as petty as cake? Consider yourself lucky

I'm allergic to chocolate also and I can't eat Red Velvet cake.

At least you found out she was a spoiled bitch before you married her.