Yar. I've been with my BF for nearly 8 years. For the first 3 years she tried running me off, thankfully she gave up. Don't let it get too you OP, if she's really bad just plan Christmas around your family. :)

LOL !

Come on OP, obviously your husband was a mommas boy. You should've anticipated this was going to happen! You should send her pictures of you guys being romantic though! =) haha that'll throw her in a rage!

ask her to mind her own business!!!!'

Well if you don't have a career or a degree and will spend the rest of your life working dead end jobs and live paycheck to paycheck, then she could be worried about her son's financial future. Money problems are the number one reason for divorce and she could be trying to spare her son that pain of you can't pull your weight financially. She shouldn't have said anything to you though. If anything she should've said it to her son.

Today u disagree, ten years from now...she'll be right.

I say this woman is gonna torment u if u marry her son til the day she dies...my advice is make sure he's gonna support u and not side w her or else ur marriage will fail. my mil sucks but my hubby is there for me...my sis however, her hubby sides w his mom no matter what and its hurting them more than u know. good luck!

Try having the mother-in-law live with you. My mother in law has been living with us for 8 months and she was supposed to only be here for a month, now we have plans to move out of the house, which she has to go too, and she is begging my husband for us to stay longer.. In all of her months living here she has just now paid part of the bills because I lost my job.

I guess the question here is, does she want you to leave him because she doesn't like you or is it because she is trying to protect you... If the two of you love each other, well then get married s long as he is the right guy that will protect and support you. Is he momma's only son? Maybe that's why, she sees you as stealing her baby boy away. Just make sure he's not a "momma's boy" that is going to call home everyday needing to hear momma's voice. She'll come around I promise. But if it's because he's a baad guy, get away, get away now. If momma is willing to tell you that her own son is no good, heed that advice. But as always, take into consideration the really importnt things: 1. Is he hung like a moose or a mouse -- if the answer is moose - stay 2. Does he have a long, strong tongue and can he breath through his ears - if yes - stay 3. If he focuses on your pleasure in bed -- stay 4. If all he desires are blow jobs and anal -- that's your call.. Good luck!

Ok so let me ask this Does he do drugs, have a job, beat you ??? Both my mom and me told my ex sister in law the same thing because my brother is a coke head and beat her and they have 2 kids together so it was for the best To all others who say mil is trolling maybe think outside the box she may be better off without him