By JayDNut - 08/11/2013 21:17 - Pompano Beach
JayDNut tells us more.
OP here. The argument was over where we'd spend Christmas (her family or mine) and I was adamant we'd spend it at mine after spending the previous at hers. No bones were broken (am missing a tooth, however) although I'm a maze of bruises and swelling. We're no longer together now. Thanks for all the supporting messages!
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So...you're getting a new girlfriend right?
She didn't think they'd take it serious? If she thought that then she really doesn't trust in her friends...
Are yyou going to stay with her?!
I can't imagine the type of woman it would take to tell people with a straight face that her boyfriend had been beating her, and then accept the sympathy and offers of help without recanting her statement. I hope she cleared it up with everyone she told, so that they know she is a lying, evil witch and I hope OP leaves her and is okay. I know the guys that beat you up were acting under false pretenses, but they shouldn't do something like that without proof, so you wouldn't be out of bounds to file assault charges against them, if you were so inclined.
I kinda wish you had recorded her saying that she was lying about it. Not that she has proof of abuse anyway, but it would definitely prevent her from slandering you more after you break up with her. For your safety, break up with her. If this is how she's going to react to an argument, there is no telling what else she might say or do. File a police report as well and make sure they take pictures of the injuries! Once again, if they're willing to beat a person up for hearsay; I hate to think what else they might do. Don't burn your bridges, blow them up!
That is so stupid of her to do that. Like wtf? What was the argument about?
Run while you still can. I'm willing to bet she knew excatly what she was doing and is now just trying to cover by pretending she had no idea how her friends would react.
Normally I'm not one to say break up, but I think this time you should.
I had an ex lie about me in that same exact way and it almost caused a whole group of guys to jump me. Run away... and never look back man. It won't get any better.
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Spousal abuse is serious as ****. Your girlfriend is a twat for lying about something like that.
And what's so wrong with her that she thinks domestic abuse is something to joke about?