By BrokenHearted - 04/07/2009 21:11 - United States

Today, my girlfriend of 3 years who had taken a job in a new city last month came into town and told me that she had slept with a co-worker last Friday. Last Friday I was incredibly lonely but I turned down a very attractive woman because I didn't want to hurt my girlfriend. FML
I agree, your life sucks 60 933
You deserved it 5 831

Same thing different taste

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Those are probably the reasons why he didn't want to hurt her...

That should make you the better person then =]

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u dont deserve her. u can do so much better!!

big_rob1 0

damn. good guys always lose... whatever happens or whatever people tell you, just know that u did the right thing.

You are just as much in the wrong as her. Just because you turned sex down doesn't make you great. You still wanted to do it. You & your girlfriend obviously have no respect or love for each other, break up.

#67 Maybe I am just some very dumb ******* guy, but I always thought there was a difference between wanting and doing. As far as I read, he turned her down, because he had respect (the thing you accused OP of lacking) by NOT doing what many, many men do. So apparently, according to your twisted, and strange logic, wanting to do something, immediately makes you bad, meaning that if I wanted to hit someone because they insulted, or injured me, but didn't, regardless I am a bad person. Well... Looks like a lot of people with desires, but the strength to resist an impulse, will still burn in Hell, simply because they had a desire.

I'm sorry to hear that. Good guys never catch a break, and when we decide to do something considrered 'wrong' we get ****** 1000x as hard as any other person. Life's not fair... FYL, I feel with you.

Karma will repay your eventually. I guarantee it. : )

She couldn't go a month apart without cheating? Seriously OP, I think you deserve better.

fakkumairaifu 14

You're still the better person here. :)

I'm a guy in a committed relationship (long distance, for the time being) and am completely faithful. Even so, men are biologically wired to have multiple sex partners. Even being in a relationship with someone they love very much and are attracted to, they are still attracted to others. I realize that I'm going to be attracted to other women my entire life, and it's not my fault. What WOULD be my fault is if I acted upon said attractions and hurt others as a result. Real men resist temptations and opportunities and conquer their biological inclinations. Way to go, OP.

voveraite 7

A small addition: Not only men are wired to be attracted to more people. We *all* are. Yet, in the case of both genders, it's a matter of will, self-respect, and respect for your partner.