Start giving him head while he plays his game. When he gets hard just start teasing him so he will want to take control and actually do something. We're guys. Even if we aren't in the mood, it's very easy to change that. Just takes a little effort.

It isn't the X Box that's the problem. The cold statement of "All ready sent it" that was hurtful. If he was tired, not in the mood or whatever there were about a million other ways to say not now that are not as hurtful. If you truly love someone you try not to hurt them in any way. Talk to him about this. I'm sorry OP and good luck.

If you are ever in Texas...

*risque'

Based from your name OP, you and/or your boyfriend are Asian. That being said, the Asian sterotypes love games, tech, and electronics. It is part of the general package, unless you find an Asian Unicorn that is into...less nerdier things, but many people like the nerd things.

Bros before the ho's.

Okay, If you aren't going to put in the effort of even walking into the next room (or anywhere in the house for that matter) to talk to him and ask to get intimate, and instead resort to texting him, he shouldn't have to put in the effort of telling you no. An impersonal advance deserves an impersonal response (or lack thereof).

let him play his xbox once he's done with it I'm sure he will play with you

Damn that is real lame. See where his priorities lie.. No nookie for him..

Personally, I think he's an idiot. But you have to look at this from two perspectives, his and yours. I'm not sure why he was away but I'm imagining it was business. I used to travel a lot for business and when I got home, often I wanted to relax, even be alone for a bit. You had your plans, he had his. Just because yours involved sex doesn't make it more valid. If I were you, I'd have grabbed a controller and played along with him or at least cuddled up next to him.