yes, He's a total jerk for poor timing - but in the long run, at least you won't have any regrets....who wouldn't be happy to be free of such a jerk? Plus, you're still young, and can now enjoy single life to the fullest.

So what you are all saying is that people should NEVER marry young because it might....might after 10 years of marriage end in divorce. Have the people on here never taken a chance on something or someone. I dont understand how a few extra years of life could make a marriage work more. Some people have done a lot of living by the time they are 18 and where I am from you can get married from 16 onwards and 18 is generally accepted as an age where people know their own mind.

Alright, well I think it's ridiculous for some people on here to call her a ***** and say she deserves it because I did not see ,anywhere in this FML, the reason he served her papers. Just because they're getting divorced doesn't mean anyone cheated. Hell, my parents are divorced because my mom found out my dad didn't care about her and left him. Their passion might have died down and he might have been bored so he wanted out to find something new. Although it's pretty hard to find something new once you've been married, and especially when you have kids (if they have kids.) Second, I don't agree with getting married at 18 or 19 but whatever flips your burgers. I don't think, though, that she deserves a divorce because she got married young. They lasted 10 FRICKEN YEARS. That's a long time. That's longer than my parents lasted and they were 28 and 29 when they got married. I personally wouldn't consider getting married until I'm at least of legal drinking age. Still doesn't make her deserve what she got in any way. Read what I wrote above for a possible explanation as to why she did get what she did. Regardless, Good luck OP. Anyone who stays with you for 10 years and then serves you papers on your birthday isn't worth the tears. There's plenty more fish in the sea :]

Wow, I am really sorry that happened to you! I feel that if he didn't want to be in the marriage anymore he should have just talked about it first. I'm wondering if he waited until her bday to do this?! Well i hope you are okay and you don't worry, everything will get better from here!

that's what you get for marrying at eighteen. still ****** up though, he could have at least waited for the day after your birthday. take him to the cleaners

women get the stuff in the divorce cause thier too stupid to survive without it

op your husband is obviously a comedic genius!

I would have laughed if part of the FML was that they'd gotten a pre-nup. I would never marry anyone without a pre-nup. Take half my stuff? Hahahahahhahahahahahaha! Not likely, bitch!

**** that sucks

that's what happens when you get married at 19