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Chin up, beauty is in the eye of the beholder! Besides, I hope you aren't in love with her.
At least things won't get weird between them since her friend is not attracted to her
maybe she just meant OP isn't attractive to her. I mean... I used to get really annoyed when my female friends thought I wanted them. it's kinda rough actually! or maybe she's just mean
I'm pretty sure she was probably just nervous coming out to her friend and it sounded rude, but she really just wanted her to know she just thought of her as a friend. I wouldn't worry about it, OP :) she's probably embarrassed too
It's likely that she just didn't want to freak you out OP. Generally, when someone does that they just are trying to make you feel more comfortable/at ease. Some people think someone is coming out to them because they like them, she probably just didn't want you to get that idea....yet;)
Not attractive to women? As long as you're not gay too, who cares. Guys will still like you because you have boobs. Seriously, that's all it takes. I dated my wife for 2 months before I realised she even had a face.
So I'm guessing your first kiss wasn't mouth to mouth, huh? Way to skip first base. ;)
That happened to me one time…it took 6 weeks before I realised it was a fat guy.
So THAT'S why men are always talking to my boobs.
I hardly have boobs omg :/
45- don't feel insecure about your lady bits. Men like small boobs and big boobs. Boobs are boobs! :P you don't need big lady bits for a guy to like you. So don't stress it.
When I see you say "big lady bits" I picture massive beef curtains or something similar.
i prefer small boobs.
I like boobs, but I don't care too much about the size.
Well she wouldn't have become lesbian if she didn't secretly think you were attractive :)
This is stupid on too many levels.
First off, people don't just "become" lesbian. It's the way they're born. Secondly, OP's best friend actually told her she wasn't attractive to her.. What part of that did you not comprehend?
This happened to me. I was torn between immense relief that she was wasn't attracted and extremely insulted that she wasn't attracted. Weird couple of days in friendshipville.
Maybe she said she didn't find you attractive because she wants to make sure that you think she doesn't like you that way. I know when same sex friends come out of the closet that things are weird at first.
Honesty, isn't that what best friends are for?
That is so unnecessary. What a bitch
Calling her a bitch is unnecessary.
Saying someone is unattractive is extremely rude and unnecessary. That's just uncalled for. She might not be a total bitch but that's a bitchy thing to say to someone
Since we were not there we do not know exactly how the friend meant it. I know plenty of lesbians/gays that when they tell someone they are gay, their straight friends automatically think that they like them. It might have been her friends awkward attempt to say, "Hey, I am out of the closet but this won't get awkward because I don't find you sexually attractive."
That might be how she meant it, but according to the FML that's not how she said it, which is what I'm going off of
yes, because everything that exits your mouth ALWAYS comes out in exactly the manner you intended ESPECIALLY when you're nervous ya know
Maybe it's exactly what she meant to say. You have no idea since you weren't there.
And neither do you so shut up and stop arguing. It's an FML for godsakes who cares
A rude thing to say whether or not you were attracted to her.
Sounds like a crappy friend honestly.
Just be happy she is finally coming out, and as for her not thinking you are attractive, that is just one persons opinion! Don't let it get you down!
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Not attractive to women? As long as you're not gay too, who cares. Guys will still like you because you have boobs. Seriously, that's all it takes. I dated my wife for 2 months before I realised she even had a face.
Chin up, beauty is in the eye of the beholder! Besides, I hope you aren't in love with her.