Too bad for her! I love a man in uniform and you're doing good for joining the academy! This just means that she wasn't going to be mature about it in the long run so consider this a fresh start. Another girl will find along and love you for who you are AND what you do. :)

she's probably just worried about you getting hurt and doesn't want to deal with the fact that it could happen.

when I left for the academy my girlfriend was just happy she was going to get a gold card

Well if she doesn't want to marry you why didn't she just accept girlfriend status ?

She probably thinks the "Police Academy" movies are documentaries and you are going to have wild sex and comedic hijinks once you go.

Congratulations on the new opportunity and double congratulations for now being free off that selfish controlling cow :)

That sucks man.. I wanna be a police officer too, but it's not that it's extremely dangerous. It's how you do your job. Why can't people understand that?!?

Just tell her it's not that dangerous - it'll be just like Super Troopers! Tell her right meow!

It sounds like she was cheating on you. People who feel guilty often try to lay the blame on the other person. Im sorry :(

It sounds like she was just using it as an excuse, the sudden mood change seems too suspicious