Bitches like that girl the rest of us a bad name. There's plenty of non-cheating nice girls here in Boston. Dump the bitch and I promise you'll find someone 100x better who won't do that kind of shit.

four hours in boston traffic!? where the hell were you coming from? i drive through the worst traffic in the area and it never takes more than two hours...were you coming from maine? anyway-throw the phone out the window and tell the bitch she can go find it herself after you dump her. that's not cool

#93 speaks the truth. #92 is an idiot. "omg my bf is such a dick I think he may check through my text messages in the future...ooo- i'll start ****ing another guy, that'll work perfect!"

#92 is definitely one of those bitches who would cheat on her boyfriend, probably is right now. no one else could have that kind of warped mentality. i don't think you were in the wrong for going through her phone, because like others have said, you weren't LOOKING for anything. you weren't going through it thinking you were going to find anything. it's only snooping when it's not innocent. its so stupid that people are like "you shouldnt have been looking through her phone, you deserve it", if she wasn't a cheating ***** you wouldn't have had anything to find! her fault completely.

Sooo, just because this guy drove 4 hrs to get a phone, makes him a ******* saint? What if he's actually been a total dick this whole time? And had been pushing her away? So she went off to find someone else, and then they ended up patching things up? It doesn't excuse her from cheating, but you people jump to conclusions way to fast, without thinking of different scenarios that caused the problem in the first place.

I wouldn't mind if my boyfriend looks through my phone. She asked him to go get it, which he so kindly did. She really shouldn't be surprised if he looks through it- its not that hard to get a new phone and number...

I agree with #16, lol. Then do what #6 said and dump the bitch. And #7 is right -- you shouldnt have been snooping, but it doesn't really matter and you're better off for it.

I totally agree with some of the first posters: text the guy back and be like, "Hey, guess who? [gf's name]'s other boyfriend! She told me not to tell you, but it just felt wrong not to. Well, now you know. Have a great day." and then toss her phone into traffic and not tell her. And if she asks what happened, just be like, "next time you want to send someone on bitch errands for you, send what's-his-face, because we're done."

Keep the phone! You shouldn't have been snooping, but at least you were willing to do that for her. (Not snoop; drive all that way.) At least you know now?

#67, good song :D Agree wholeheartedly with #68. All of you saying he was "snooping" are idiots. There should be nothing you should ever have to hide from your significant other, and if what he did is called "snooping", then you're saying he's wrong for invading her "personal business", which means you're saying he's wrong for finding out that she was cheating.