Dream proposal

By groomfail - 02/03/2009 01:41 - United States

Today, I proposed to my girlfriend, whom I'm madly in love with, by having a plane fly over her house spelling "Marry me Abby?" After seeing it, she locked herself in her room and cried for hours, exclaiming that this wasn't how she wanted to be proposed to. I'd invited my entire family. FML
I agree, your life sucks 105 138
You deserved it 11 751

Same thing different taste

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she should have been thankful, because that's incredibly sweet. i don't understand the obsession with proposals as long as you're genuinely in love and propose in a way that shows you care.

I've only known one other person who had a fiance who bitched about the WAY her boyfriend proposed. She turned out to be insane, and they ended up splitting up. If she's seriously going to cry because you didn't propose how she wanted you to, it's time to break up.

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Don't listen to 186, all girls are different. You just have to kinda feel it out to see how your girl wants it(big crowd or not). A friend of mine proposed to his girl at a huge softball tournament withs all kinds of people watching(including strangers). And what about those people who propose on the Jumbo-tron at football, baseball, and hockey games? It's all subjective.

So, you have two comments containing woman-hating slander, and now you're trying to tell someone that all girls are different? I don't quite understand your hypocritical stance on sexism.

Whata BITCH! That you made is a hundred times better (or more) than the average proposals made by people around the world, and she cries only because that wasn't the way she imagined it?

Seriously, this girl obviously has some issues. More so along the lines of the fantasy romance life she wants to live. If she can't see that this took a lot of thought and consideration on your part, then she's not worth it. And if she's crying about your proposal for four hours, imagine how long she'll cry for if you do something else nice and romantic for her.

Trooth 13

That is absolutely NOTHING to cry about. I mean she didn't even get physically hurt...You should reconsider marrying her if she can't even take getting the so called "not perfect proposal"

Well, to be honest, I wouldn't particularly enjoy that proposal either... I'd prefer to have something more intimate and personal, not some big to-do that'll put me in the spotlight in front of your whole family, it'll seem more like it's all just a big show than a proposal. BUT if the man I loved DID propose to me in such a way, I'd get over it, say yes, and look towards the future instead. After all, it's not the proposal that counts, it's the marriage. I definitely think she WAY overreacted!

Maybe she thinks you over-did it to corner her into saying yes, but if you were sure... ...then she's much too high maintenance. Get rid of her.

KuehlL 0

What a bitch. I was proposed to this past summer and it was nothing like I had ever dreamed of. It was perfect just because my Fiance took the time to plan it. U need to get rid of the bitch and find someone who appreciates everything you do for her.

You just caught a glimpse of the future and how she deals with disappointment. Now your chance to run for your life. Your last chance to dodge this bullet. She is a drama Queen and it will only get worse once she has your ring on her finger.