Good one, mate

By Anonymous - 21/11/2015 12:44 - United Kingdom - Cardiff

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Today, I've spent nearly three weeks indulging my boyfriend's weird fetish, where he wears a hockey mask and I call him Jason. He just confessed it isn't really a fetish for him and that was just fucking with me. He's already told all his friends. I'm humiliated. FML
I agree, your life sucks 35 245
You deserved it 4 765

Same thing different taste

Top comments

BecauseIAmBatman_fml 22

Whata dick. Like the boy who cried wolf, if he says he has another fetish you won't believe him.

Time to reveal your reversed roles fetish.

Comments

crazygirl2014 8

The way I see it, it just shows that you would do stuff for him whether you like or not because you care for him. Where as he looks like an a**hole for pulling that sh*t with you. I mean if that was his fetish I'm sure he'd love that you did it for him.

I honestly don't think that the first response to relationship issues should be to dump the person, except if the issue is abuse of any kind. This is one of those times that the response SHOULD be to dump him, because him injuring you like that is not okay and you deserve better. For revenge, I would have all of your friends spread the fact that he is the sort of guy to humiliate anyone who dates him for ***** and giggles. Factual which means it isn't slander, warns other girls that he can't be trusted, and will make it harder for the PoS to get another victim.

If he makes you feel that way, maybe he isn't the one? There's a line between a joke and talking shit about you to his friends

You should be embarrassed. It's pathetic you let him do that.

Do you usually blame victims for being taken advantage of by predatory people? Because that is what you are doing. The problem isn't that OP was willing to negotiate on what she thought was her BF's kink, but that he exploited her trust. If you are honestly saying that the OP deserved that, you need some ******* common sense and empathy knocked into that empty head of yours, because you aren't just an idiot or just an asshole, you're both. The logic you are using is the same breed that people try to use to defend rapists when they rape someone that trusted them- "oh, well you shouldn't have trusted them to be a decent human being, so it's your fault." Taking advantage of people is never the victims fault- that is why they are called VICTIMS.

Nice speech. But really, who would want to be ****** by Jason for 3 weeks? OP should really look more after her own interests. If you spend your life trying to please others you will never be happy yourself.

ThePandoricaOpen 18

Obviously, one of her interests was making the jackwad happy, and you sir need to reexamine your life, since you clearly think victim-blaming is an okay thing to do.

"Spend your life trying to please others" um, it's kind of true you have to spend your life trying to please your partner. If you look out for yourself and what you like, you're not going to have a successful relationship. Ever heard "relationships take compromise"? It's not some propaganda spread to keep people from being selfish, it's true. You have the right to refuse to indulge a fetish that makes you uncomfortable, but op did NOT deserve this in the least.

Good for you for trying to be understanding and non-judgemental of his supposed fetish. He is just a dick for trying to make you look stupid.

What a douche. Break up with him. That's not okay. Someone who loves you wouldn't humiliate you in any way.

BeccaHart 9

so say hey let's have a three some and if he says yes say OK I will find a guy then

the_taken_queen 4

i hope you are calling him your ex now.

Lol that should be more embarrassing for him. Exhibit A. Your being a good girlfriend trying to make him happy Exhibit b. He told his friends that he told you that's what makes him happy. He is kind of weird for going through with that

he just sounds like a dick who doesn't respect you