Didn't mean for the double post to happen. FML has been screwy with me lately.

organisedchaos - okay - so you are saying that there's so many pressures from society that a man feels that in order to prove himself - he needs to get married? okay - but that makes perfect sense for a man to prove his character by attaching himself to the smarter gender. as for relating the eating disorder to this debate - i am simply trying to say you have a double standard - according to you "it is okay and perfectly logical for men to feel pressure from society that they need to prove their character by getting married, but if a woman feels pressure from society to risk her own health to be able to be accepted in society, that's just her fault for being stupid." by the way your numbers are off again - if you had a decent argument you wouldnt have so many people to respond to..you might then be able to use user names.

as far as shaving goes for my girlfriend, I kinda prefer it when we do oral as I don't like the hairs in my mouth, funny the hairs down there bother me as nothing other about oral does =/ . Though honestly the more we do it, the more I adjust to the hairs. And to be fair I don't shave down there at all and have received oral and have received no complaints about the hairs. So perhaps I should just suck it up :P

DON'T GET MARRIED!!!!!!!! NEVER!! It will only go down hill! Trust me(a guy you've never met) Ive been married & divorced TWICE! I'm 28 =(

#219 - Organisedchaos Er... yes, actually, I would think that the fact she did it for the gyno (and only the gyno) would indicate it's a big deal (to her at least). Seeing a gyno is not like seeing a regular doctor - it happens very, very rarely and unless it's for something like yearly check-ups (if that), girls don't go unless there's a problem. Therefore, if she's only doing it for this very, VERY rare occasion in the hopes of making a MEDICAL EXAM easier, then I would venture to say that she has some objection to it in general. Although, if we're going for this whole "fill in the blanks" thing, then I would venture that if she's shaving for the gyno, she's never been before and was trying to do everything she could that she thought would be of some use, even things that go against what she likes or feels comfortable with (from what I hear, a visit to the gyno is an uncomfortable experience in general, though). $10 says she got there and the gyno told her she shouldn't have shaved, so she won't do it again.

Yeah... I probably do have too much time on my hands. I'm really sick of writing my thesis... But I want to give a quick Thank You! to ipreferblondes for taking the time to read my post (or missive I guess I should say) even though I stated in the beginning that I didn't agree with him. So THANKS!

IPreferBlondes: I LIVE in the Middle East. So before you start yapping, make sure you know what's going on around you. Don't think you can judge by just looking at the TV. I'm sorry they show such a limited idea of them, but you clearly have no idea since I've been living in the Middle East and God knows where you are. I'm not pathetic for calling you a racist. You're clearly judging the culture of people you have the least bit of knowledge about. I'm sorry if in you're culture all that matters is sex and having shaved pussy for breakfast. So much for calling yourself a man. You should reread your words, and from what you say, you've obviously never experienced real love. I feel bad for you. Not only are your morals pretty gay, but you're trying to talk about how other people live their life when clearly you're wrong. God, just another ignorant shagmachine.

I hope you feel like a dumbshit now. Coz you are :)

#45: How hard are you shaving where you have to worry about severing your own dick? Have you ever knicked your own clit on a razor? Obviously not. It hurts. Quit whining.

organisedchaos we all know the commenting system is screwed yet you keep using numbers when there is usernames that arent going to change...wise up. maybe i dont believe that traumas can be compared. a girl sees how pretty skinny girls have friends and go on dates whereas she see how fat kids get picked on - she starts with a diet - it keeps getting more and more severe over a few years till she has to go to a hospital - okay - now a guy gets married just to prove his character - after a year they have a baby - the pressures keep adding up and they get divorced - he looses half of his money, only sees his child on weekends, misses a lot of birthdays and holidays, the wife took at least half in the divorce - just because something isnt life threatening doesnt mean it is all happy - if something had to be life threatening in order to be socially considered bad - people would have to bottle up a lot of hurt. trauma is trauma - no matter the degree. the only time to take degree into consideration is when it is going to affect the treatments for the person.