Hmmm my analysis of "shes meeting her fiance before" means that she met him in the internet or something? Cause if she did then you should do what #9 said. Try to convince her that your the one for her but thats up to you if you are seriously in-love with her and would do anything for her but on the other hand if she met him over the internet you should really talk to her and let her think it over since most peoples attitudes on the web is completely different from their real life persona.

That reminds me of Made of Honor

http://bit.ly/19g4Nv

Time to move on kiddo.

Ouch, I'm sorry. At least you get a trip to Europe.

Ouch. Maybe ya should have made a move sooner? Either way it's a FREE trip to Europe.

A free trip to Europe is grand, but your dignity costs more. If you're going to feel shittier having gone this way, just save up some dough and make the trip some other time. You did totally shoot yourself in the foot by sniffing after a girl for so long without making your intentions clear, or for sticking around once she shot you down. I won't go all Harry Met Sally and say that men and women can never been friends, but if you develop feelings for someone, make a move or prepare for pain. Hell, either way, make a move.

pull a romantic comedy move and tell her how you feel. may be she will fall for you and marry you later on instead ;)

Oh damn. I'm so sorry, man.

that sucks dude. i know what you're feeling...tell her before it's too late.