Actually, that's the first place I went, too, and I'm female, and have two kids. Easy mistake, definitely not FYL, especially since he was trying to be supportive.

He thought you were being depressed about your size [obviously you gain weight during pregnancy] and he tried to make you feel better. Don't read too far into this, he was being a good husband.

#20, hahahaha. Not everyone gains weight when they have a baby. My mom stayed the same weight by staying active, and when she had me, she instantly lost weight and ended up weighing less then she did before she got pregnant. I think this is a FML and a YDI, because your husband didn't get what you were trying to say, and you felt embarrassed, but also you weren't that specific, and the 'feeling like a cow' reference can go both ways.

Almost everyone gains weight while getting pregnant and breast feeding, it isn't that bad

Well, similes don't always work these days, hmm

oh come on, give the guy a break. He was just trying to make you feel better.

yeah probably don't leave something so open ended like that when you're going to be sensitive either way

Time to call up Jenny Craig!

Aww. Men are tactless idiots.

ouch! burn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...hahaha least u didnt say ur an elephant...LMFAO