Sorry this ^ comment wasn't supposed to post down here, so I posted this comment again in the correct spot. I apologize for the annoyance it may cause.

******* seriously? I straight up stuck my hand down a girls pants and she calmly pulled it back out. Not everyone overreacts like you. Christ.

Um, 118, I have no idea what compelled you to do such a thing, but I know most women would at the very least tell you right the **** off for doing that if they didn't ask for it (or signal they wanted it). That's not an overreaction... that's telling perverts like you to lay the **** off.

And how's that approach working for you, #118? I bet the reason you're desperate enough to violate girls by stuffing your cold, sweaty hands into their private areas is because there's not a woman on this planet who would voluntarily allow you to do it.

Heh, they're called "private areas" for a reason!

The simple answer is alcohol. Both of us were drunk, as i assume 103 would have been if she was at a college party. Drunkenly assaulting someone for a harmless assgrab? Wow.

That doesn't exactly matter. You can't just walk up to whatever chick you feel like and start molesting the crap out her private areas. What gives you the right!?

Walk up? No. She had already started grinding her ass into my crotch. Or "private areas", if that suites you.

OP didn't exactly walk up to the old man, did she? You're comparing your situation to OP's, which is completely different.

No, I'm comparing it to 103.

148 - Did you miss the part where I said "...if they didn't ask for it (or signal they wanted it)."? What you said, if it's true, changes everything. She signaled she wanted it. You made it sound like you randomly walked up to her because you felt like it, and started feeling her up.

103's case is exactly the same as OP's. She didn't want it either. A punch in the face DOES seem a bit extreme to me, unless the guy didn't stop there, but still the guy had no right to do that.

Shes at a party, he's drunk, shes also presumably drunk. It seems excusable and harmless to me. Also, would any guy complain if a drunk girl decided she wanted a piece of his ass? Unlikely.

I have a girlfriend, plan to marry her. So yeah, I think I would mind. Don't apply your situation to every other guy in the planet. Also, a guy doesn't usually have to fear potential rape from a girl.

Raped in the middle of the party? Please. ******* Paranoia. And another thing. Would she be complaining if said ass grabber was Jonny Depp or Brad Pitt of whoever girls think is hot nowadays? Doubt it.

Well guess what, it's her choice if she would mind it if it was Brad Pitt or if it's a random guy. You can also swap Brad Pitt or whatever for a regular guy that she knows and likes, and she wouldn't mind it either, you gonna go around saying "why can he do that and I can't" in this case too? "Rape in a party- please" Uh, are you being serious, or do you live in a bubble? Even if it wasn't common, it's an instinct to be afraid of it. You and I can't understand that because we're guys. Like I said, I also think that 103 overreacted, I'd love to see what she'd write about if the story was a guy punching a girl for grabbing his ass, but you're on the other extreme.

^^ Well said. Nothing more to add onto that except for the fact that even if it was Brad Pitt or Johnny Depp, they would still be out of line and many girls would do the same thing regardless of who it was. No girl appreciates being touched there without permission. Shoving your hands down her pants IF she didn't ask for it is just wrong. In your case, I suppose she wanted it so it doesn't matter near as much. But telling a guy off for grabbing or slapping her ass when she didn't ask for or want that kind of attention is not an overreaction. We're not objects, asshole.

As a matter of fact, I was only a couple of drinks in and nowhere near being drunk, @Sublime420. To answer your other assumptions, the guy was fairly attractive - tall, in shape, nice eyes, etc. It didn't matter. Are you implying that good-looking men should be given a free pass to sexually harass women? Are you really that shallow? I know at least five women who have been raped/taken advantage of at parties, and many others who have had close calls (including myself on a different occasion). Parties are an extremely common situation for that kind of thing. Before the incident involving me, I had already observed the guy in question being crude with other girls, doing everything from trying to kiss them to trying to grab a tit here and there. So go ahead and tell me again how I "overreacted".

Thats not rape, you silly woman. Thats a drunk chick waking up the next morning next to an unattractive guy and crying rape.

lol

Oh my god, yeah the guy's nasty, but wishing him death? Some people take things way into the extreme. OP, Could be your store's new slogan. Slap a butt, get a card.