take the wine and run

You sneaking out would seem like nothing compared to this...I doubt you would still get in trouble if you told your mom she would have other things to worry about

Tell her. Your mom will be less hurt if you tell her now than if she finds out you both were lying to her (and she will find out). Meanwhile, maybe use it to your advantage in the meantime with your dad... :P (jk) I can't believe your dad would ever confess to you.

*chants* BLACK-MAIL, BLACK-MAIL!

#49: Right, because a 15-year-old hand-holding cuddlefest is totally analogous to a legally binding marriage between two adults. MATURITY ZING!

#45 you piece of shit. You think using a holy promise as a tool for her to get closer to her dad is alright. Would that even work "hey dad lets talk about that secret for the 5,000 time to expand our bond". "what she wont know wont hurt her" so i should murder a guy and feel alright about it just becuase i wouldnt be caught. that is the logic of an idiot. keeping a child safe and setting boundries so she wont have a HUGE hole or have a unwanted tatoo or even prevent a possible addiction is bad? You are either a very insensitive TROOOOOLL or a huge block head

U definatly need to tell ur mom-she deserves to knows. Besides, sneaking out is nowhere near as bad as what your dad did-he can't hold that against you. I'm really sorry :-(

I would say blackmail him milk it for all you can then tell your mum but do it soonish but tell her definitely. and er...you found out your dad was cheating and you came on FML? priority check is in order methinks?

Thats sucks. but you can always use it against him. What he is/was doing is way worse than what you did..

And 24: that's not awsome! How would u feel if some1 wuz cheating on u? Bcuz the OPs mom will find out sooner or later.