Who ever made up that thing was a fool. You can have sex with a _LOT_ of people, and it will mean something everytime it is with someone special. Those things doesn't change.

you get with his brother???

Either he's religious, really nice, or not interested (hence sleeping in his little brother's room).

Stop bein a **** then... problem solved?

There is also the tiny chance he takes care of his brother, like a legal guardian. There is also the slight chance with it being the holidays, maybe he invited her to visit his family with him and that's why she assumed they would be having sex for the first time. Although, if he did invite her with him I don't understand why she would assume they would be having sex in his parents home if they haven't had sex before. He could have invited her as as a way of seeing how well she gets along with his family or something. Then again it's extremely likely he lives at home or is in school and home for break.

I like how everyone calls a girl a **** 4 wanting to be with one guy...smh

YDI, you shouldn't get your hopes up high. HELLO it is the 1st time yall would be spending the night together, unless you give yourself away easily!!

Some of these comments seem a little ridiculous. If the only info the OP had going in was that they'd be "spending the night together," she really shouldn't have assumed that that means sex? And do most full grown adults in new relationships usually spend the night together and NOT have sex? That doesn't sound like the average couple to me, and from the impromptu poll I just took, I'm not the only one. But whatever; if you disagree, flame away! :-)

Go find the little brother, I bet he'd man up in a second

At least he is allowing you out of the kitchen?;)