Stay classy

By kimboslice106 - 08/06/2011 05:21 - United States

Spicy
Today, I asked my boyfriend to spend the night at my house because my dad would be working out of town, and once the rest of the house left I thought it'd be sweet if he snuck in my room and slept with me. His reply was, "Why bother? You're on your period, it's not like we can do anything." FML
I agree, your life sucks 50 253
You deserved it 14 166

Same thing different taste

Top comments

nicospec 1
mikejunior88 4

he likes you for one reason clearly. now you get to decide if you want to be with a person like that or not.

Comments

enonymous 8

So are your arms and jaw broken too? If so have him duct tape your feet to his junk. hell you can charge him for a Brazilian wax afterward.

oh god... how nice would it be for him to wake up to see your pad leaked ._. no thanks, but it would be sweet if you had someone to comfort you while you had cramps.

longchow 8

exactly. all those saying that cuddling is a good enough option, it really isn't if she's on her period. also, cuddling with my gf would just make me horny, even when we slept in the same bed with each other for a year. so, I would gladly have answered the same as your bf.

But the main problem is not sex. She can use her hand/mouth and if she uses a tampon, the boyfriend can also use his hand. Anal is also an option, but I wouldn't recommend it, she probably has enough pain/cramps already. You can still pleasure eachother whilst your girlfriend is on her period, no doubt about that. The main problem I see (and already have told) is that her parents doesn't know that he stays for the night. Everybody knows that something like that can end badly (like, being discovered and punished). Her boyfriend isn't willing to take that risk if all they're going to do is cuddling and sleeping, which I completely can and do understand.

fmlluver1415 6
TheBeatlesAreLov 0

Pads are nasty! It's all about tampons.,.

skyttlz 32

I use pads over night cuz I sleep for more than 8 hrs

hthelittleone 10

tampons all the way. I hate pads. it's like this: why would you let the oil spill happen and ruin everything if you could just clog it?

joa76 3

How is cuddling not a good option if she's on her period? Most girls use tampons, and unless informed, most guys would never know she had it. I feel sorry for any girl you ever date if you won't cuddle just because she has her period (unless you're like 14, in which case, hopefully you'll grow up). And you know what? Even if cuddling makes you horny, you're probably not going to get sex every time you cuddle for the rest of your life, so you can suck it up and deal with it anyway. There's a pretty good chance it does the same for her, but she enjoys cuddling enough to put up with it.

Agreed with 8. He's made it blatantly obvious that the only reason he'd make an effort to see you, is to make whoopee. I would seriously think about why I was dating this this guy, and if I want to continue dating him after that comment OP.

So he should risk his neck just to sleep next to her? I'm sure he could do that with much less potential shit going down in his own bed.

I suppose it wouldn't help to mention... some guys out there do have their red wings. Period doesn't mean anything but her bleeding and cramping, and probably quite... touch sensitive? I don't mean in a good way either, unless... SM!

s10biker 1

true story! plus he could help her work out the cramps

bingababe 16

Best (or worst, depending what you're into) response I've gotten after refusing sex for that reason..... "If the road is red take the dirt track". I didn't agree.

swimbro 0

the French proverb is actually, "if the river is red take, the muddy path"

bingababe 16
Human_Delilah 0

He probally Doesnt want to admit he is Having his "Man Period " Also..

I agree. Trina cover up his own shit... lol

tutu15 0

wow... i take it sex is all he wants!!!! bummer.

hahachun 4

used to date a girl who when she did have her period she would stink. literally. her period smells so bad it would leave stench on the mattress

sabrinahusic 0

That's just gross! I've never heard of that.

TheDrifter 23

A fair number of women get an unpleasant odor to some degree. I'm not a doctor to tell you why, but I can often pick out the smell, especially in bed or in the truck.

sabrinahusic 0

I can imagine that happening with a pad. it's different with a tampon.

sabrinahusic 0
SteelCladAngel 0

I have less smell when using pads than tampons.

sabrinahusic 0

Pads feel like a diaper. I don't have a smell. But then again my period is really really light.

imacreeper 3
bingababe 16

88 & 101- Waaay too much information. The rest of us could each post an FML for having to read that shit.

You're smelling the iron in the blood. I have some supplements with a really high iron content that reek as well.