Tense

By jessybear777 - 15/02/2015 03:41 - United States - Branson

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Today, my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time. I'm extremely uncomfortable with eye contact, but he kept staring into my eyes the entire time. I had to sing the F.U.N. song from Spongebob in my head to stop myself having an anxiety attack. FML
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Same thing different taste

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Try telling him that you don't like it, and he'll probably stop.,Maybe he thinks you enjoy it?

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hope you both had F.U.N. at the end...

Oh_bother44 11

I don't understand though.... Isn't eye contact a 2 way thing? If I didn't want to make eye contact with someone I'd look away, even just looking at the pillow next to his head... Even if he was holding her head so she couldn't turn it away you can still avert your eyes... I'm just confused

ouijacorn 9

Closing your eyes is always an option.

Maybe this will be therapeutic and help you to be more comfortable with eye contact. It's an essential life skill for job interviews, love, etc.

Try telling him not to, he should understand, also that's a great song to sing.

A popup ad for the new SpongeBob movie appeared on my screen while i was reading this.

Wouldn't the F.U.N. song make it creepier? o.o

F is for friends who do stuff together, U is for you and me… N is for anytime, anytime at all, down here in the deep blue sea…