By Anonymous - 22/04/2014 03:00 - United States

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Today, after years of marriage and my lazy husband letting himself go, I can now finish a bottle of wine and still be sober. This means I've built immunity to the last thing that can make me want to have sex with him. FML
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LuluRichards 20

Maybe marriage counselling is worth a try?

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Nimmrodel 11

That was one depressing read. Maybe time to seek help; that's not healthy for you or him.

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Witchylady 17

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coried91 28

Yeah because cheating will solve all the problems.

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LCPLStewie 23

That's a shame to look at it that way! and cheating is even worse! The problems that would arise from the "man on the side" shit would make a divorce a lot more problematic any ways... sad that the first thing people now days think of is divorce... why don't we try salvaging the situation before trying to ruin a family? half the problem is usually our selves not willing to accept we F'd up and we and are apart of the problem.

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mt631 18

Yes, run from the problem instead of trying to solve it like an adult, great idea!

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aircanada707 3

"I can now finish a bottle of wine and am still sober" You sure you're sober over there OP?

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sweetest_jenn 18

Open communication will fix everything. If you still love everything else about him, it's worth it to try your best to regain the passion you once had. Best of luck :)

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gracehi 31

Wine is pussy shit. Graduate to vodka.

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Kaipaus 1

Oh dear. Stop the wine, you shouldn't need it! "Letting oneself go" doesn't only mean physically. I understand you. Marriage counselling sounds good - and if that doesn't work, allow yourself to be free. You are the most important person in your own life.

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askullnamedbilly 33

You're on the way of becoming an alcoholic and nobody is forcing you to have sex with him. Get psychological help. There is absolutely no reason that getting drunk is the solution to your marriage problems.

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ChelzTheWolfGirl 29

I think Op should try getting him to work out or join her in fun activities that will help the spark come back and maybe get them passionate about each other again. Also, maybe less drinking and more sharing feelings

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rocker_chick23 27

Time for marriage counseling.

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foxwasalamb 24

this is why I'm scared to get married... no offense intended op.

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coried91 28

Hopefully you'll be able to find that one person in your life that's worth the fear.

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kmfsc 4

Try being honest very honest. And try to make sure the problem is not only his looks most issues are deeper than that. try to examine the real reason why you are unhappy and fix it. With great communication I'm sure your marriage will work out

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