By DrugsRX - 17/10/2012 22:58 - United States - Winder

Today, for the second day in a row, I was constantly abused, yelled at, insulted, and berated by my wife for "endangering our child's life." I took her to the doctor for a vaccination and flu shot yesterday. FML
I agree, your life sucks 29 183
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Bitches be crazy. Seriously. It drives me nuts when parents consider all vaccines to be harmful. There's a reason they need vaccinations to go to school.

If i was married and my wife didn't want her to have vaccinations or flu shot I'd probably ignore her as well. I'd rather my child be safe.

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Sorry OP, but you deserve it. First off, you should be more critical to vaccines - there are a lot of children getting quite serious problems (like narcolepsy) after getting the flu-shot. This vaccine hasn't been tested out well enough and there are people getting a lot of money for selling it. I actually believe that a year ago there were too many of these vaccines produced and that the people that made them were trying to convince us people that we need them. Again: ended up with a lot of people with adverse effects. You should've talked about it with your wife first - the decision to take such a "young" vaccine is a serious thing.

You're an idiot. Yep, vaccines are horrible-they keep smallpox, measles, a whole lot of other horrible contagious diseases that KILL children and adults, and flu can kill children, too. So, you just keep believing what you're told, you moron-I hope you're not a breeder!

That reply merely shows how uninformed you are. No one said not to vaccinate at all but do you know anything about the flu shot? I didn't think so! There is a very very tiny part of the population that actually could benefit from it but sure you go get injected with god knows what kind of crap because you saw on tv it's good for you. Please don't tell me what to do, fortunately i grew up in an educated family, both parents are doctors and both say i'd be absolutely insane if i'd get a flu shot.

fireflygirl13 0

Im 13 and i never ever got the flu shot, and i only know like 2 people that ever got it. So everyone acting like its normal to get it is kinda annoying cause its not, lots of people dont get them. Shes not gonna die from getting a cold or flu, and shots r really scarry for some people, i would rather get a cold or a flu for a few days than get a shot. I know some shots are like important but the flu shot is dumb and she doesnt need it. All you did was ruin your kids day

I get the flu shot every year because I'm one of those lucky people with asthma, that puts me in a high risk factor. That risk is of dying because a lot of people do die from the flu especially the elderly. Also how would you know that you would rather have the flu over a jab if you've never had the flu?

Sorry read the first line as never had the flu. Not the flu jab :/

kate3101 15

I'd just like to comment on your contention that flu won't kill people. According to the CDC, 5% to 20% of the American population gets the flu, more than 200,000 people are hospitalized from flu-related complications and about 36,000 people die from flu-related causes every year. And them there's pandemic flu. The influenza pandemic of 1918 killed more people than the World War One (WW1 deaths = c16 million, flu deaths c50 million) Just because many people can shrug off the flu after a few days in bed doesn't mean that it's not serious. Just the same way that measles can leave children blind or whooping cough be fatal. The best way to avoid this is through herd immunity - protect your community by not passing around an illness that could kill them.

And this is what happens when children comment about adult matters, things about which they know nothing other than their own personal anecdotes.

ViviMage 38

Then don't get the shots. Watch smallpox and polio and tetanus take over. Your child may not be allowed to attend public school; I had to get proof of the shot for admission into 5th grade. And some physicians won't see your child without the shots. There is a concern, with mental health, but the benefits of a shot outweigh the risks to it.

We ARE talking about the flu shot here. The most useless shot ever invented. Not smallpox, not tetanus but the common f-ing flu

bobberto100 2

Good for you if she won't do it it's good you'll stand up

Ah, I've been through this. My mum didn't let me get the MMR jab and a couple of others through primary and secondary school. I had to get a catch up jab about a year ago. The nurse nearly didn't give it to me because she couldn't believe I hadn't already had it. I'm not mad at my mum though - there were worrying reports out at the time and there often are a handful of cases of people reacting badly to vaccinations. The chances are tiny but she just didn't want to risk it. I was her first baby, she didn't want to put something she didn't fully understand in my body.

It's cause of that crack pot porno chick saying vaccinations gave her kid autism. Why chicks decide to listen to her instead of facts is beyond me.

I think you'll find she is not the only case ever of a kid reacting badly to a vaccine. Your style of writing alone tells me you're not all there though...

Actually the MMR has been shown to increase the likely hood of autism just FYI. It's proven , not just ONE "chick's" kid had a problem with it. And often times its not the vaccine itself, it's the preservative inside the vaccine. Where did you get your degree ? I didn't realize you were a doctor with solid facts on the effects of vaccinations on children and infants. I hope you don't procreate. YOUR child's welfare will likely be in danger due to the fact that you seem to think your right. You don't seem to question yourself when it concerns someone else's child, who could blame you if you don't research and question what is in the best interest of a child that is yours. Not everything doctors say is gold.

She needs to read the information about the study that indicated vaccines for children were dangerous. The doctor was proven to be a liar, he made up all of the information. You are doing the right thing. Obviously your wife acts this way when' she doesn't get her way. You need to re-examine your relationship/marriage and see if it is a good role model for your child.

Who cares if that doctor was a liar? The flu vaccine is proven to be unnecessary!

This whole topic pisses me off!! I agree with you OP!!! There seems to be a lot of parents around these days that aren't giving there babies there vaccines?!?!? It's people like that, that are your to be responsible for people dying of measels again. All these diseases that had been distroyed will come back full force and all these hippy kids that aren't vaccinated will be responsible for basically plague coming back and they will all die!!! Sorry to rant, I am a nurse and it is ridiculous to not vaccinate your child. The risks do not out weight the benefits you morons!!!!!

I don't see the reason parents don't want to vaccinate their children for when it's a vaccine that has been used for a long time and has proven to be safe in a great majority of cases, but I think people should be more critical to the new vaccines out there, especially when adverse effects are reported so often.

Do some research on the Amish community and the fact that they have zero cases of autism in their communities ( the only reported one have been from adopted children who were vaccinated before adoption) they also home birth and don't take a cocktail of drugs to induce labour or take away pain. I think it's much more than vaccinations that are to blame in the surge of autism cases.

There is a reason why you are a nurse and not a doctor. You might be great at giving shots, taking blood and cleaning bandages but you obviously know nothing about vaccines. Fyl

Maybe you shouldn't inject your children with poison then, you deserved it!