That happened to a friend of mine except that she found out on her own & the worst part for her was that everyone knew but no one told her about it. At least you found out! I know its painful....... Esecially since they always try to lie & say it meant nothing but its for the best. Stay strong! You'll see you did the right thing leaving him. You deserve soneone who's gonna respect you and be faithful. Not someone who's still hung up on their ex and is gonna lie abut it and email them on Valentine's Day off your computer! What a Bastard!

He asked to get caught. Good thing you cut it. Good for you. no one would respect you if you didn't & he'll do it again. Get out before you become the laughing stock of this. You deserve better than that.

you'll find better

Exact the same story for me - Valentines day, 2008.

#1 You're boyfriends a dick. #2 If you're in a relationship where you feel you need to check your significant others email/myspace/texts/diary/etc, you really shouldn't be in the relationship. Love is built on, get this... TRUST. Try it. word.

Agree. If your already checking his emails,texts, myspace, and who knows what else your checking that your hiding than you guys shouldn't even be together! He's a dick for writing it on your computer but did you ever stop to think he wanted you to find out? Sounds like it! It sucks but get Over it! Relationships only work if their's trust! The relationship is already damaged. Move on and find someone better

yeah, that sucks what happened to you. No one deserves to be lied to like that. You are a girl. I assume a very good looking girl. Go to a bar and have guys buy you drink and tell you how pretty you are. If I were a girl, I do that. I also assume you are not hidiously deformed in the face that no guy will poke you with a 5 ft. pole. If you have a big brother who pumps iron more frequently than Arnold, have him go over to your ex's place to teach him manners. If you go back to him, that's all on you. Then you are telling him that you don't care enough about yourself. He might as well have another girlfriend because it's not like he'll change. Hell, you might as well become best friends with his new girlfriend. Even better, indulge him in every guy's fantasy and have a threesome with his new girlfriend. That would be awesome.

Haha#48. Too funny. But man if you went back you would deserve all those jokes & more lol. Threesome? Too funny! Stay strong Girl. no guy respects a girl who's a doormat. Would you? Go out there and get yourself a Man worth your time. Your ex is clearly a tool. I mean he should have just broken up with you rather than to have you find out on your own. Get your girls and find yourself a man that's worth it. Or just hook up with a guy and forget his dumb ass!

i would just lose it with him.

Two years ago, on Valentine's Day, my then wife was a bit shaken up. I had tried to make Valentine's special as always, and she seemed distant and cold. After a bit of coaxing I was able to get to to tell me that she had been cheating on me since Christmas. I was pretty beat up over all this for about two months, but I kept my feet moving, and I can't say I've been happier. I've gotten myself into shape (lost ~150 pounds), bought a condo, a new car, and I keep my eyes forward, I keep striving for more. Make better things out of your life.