#42: It wouldn't have made sense if he had done it himself, because she was checking on his "little secret", which she thought was eating the pizza. She wouldn't have had a reason to do that if she hadn't forced him. I agree with #19 and #20.

Well, I wouldn't really want a fiance that controlled my diet for my wedding. Maybe you were too controlling for him? I mean, accept how you look. If you love each other, it shouldn't matter. It is pretty damn stupid that he was with his secretary, though, and that he didn't have the balls to admit it to you earlier. You're both better off without each other.

mmm pizza

ydi for making him going on a wedding diet. i would have cheated on you, bitch

Who's to say they didn't both agree to be on a diet together and help each other through it for the wedding? She could have been teasing him about the pizza/secret thing. You never know, people. There's never an excuse for cheating, whether or not she's controlling. He could have easily just dumped her. OP, kick his ass to the curb! :(

That's a bullshit part of the female mind, trying to mind-**** the truth out of guys. Any time a girlfriend of mine has tried the "I know your secret" line on me, she starts stuttering and stammering as soon as I ask her to tell me what my secret is. I've never had any girl know my secret.

Why is it that society (as clearly demonstrated by these comments) is so quick to excuse men for cheating? Are they less capable of honoring their commitments? Should the bar be lowered for them?

That sucks. D: But at least you won't be spending the rest of your life with the bastard.

dump the guy, he's a loser if he was worth keeping he wouldn't have told you

I agree with #21. Also, sell your engagement ring and leave that guy. Karma will repay him someday!