#34, 35 and 36. Just shut the **** up. I'm sick of all this physcobabble bullshit. He cheated. Plain and ******* simple. Who gives a shit why?! Every human act is based on instinct. He didn't do it to get "approval" cause she was saying he was chubby, he did it cause he felt the need to breed. Humans are such pretentious pricks and need to stop with all the bullshit.

hey crankpot, maybe you believe that humans are not meant to be monogamous, but some humans would like to stay with someone forever. One of these people is probably the OP. Have you ever thought that the wife of this man you're sleeping with actually WANTS to stay monogamous and entered the marriage believing that her husband wants the same thing? Why don't you do the world a favor, and make this man choose? He's fooling his wife, and that's not worth any sort of happiness you get from the situation. I'm the one who posted #20, and I do believe that men aren't scumbags but go down the path of cheating because something is off-balance in the relationship. But you shouldn't take that so far as to blame the wife. Just because he never communicated to her that he was feeling controlled and emasculated, doesn't mean she deserves dishonesty.

I cracked up when I read that. Don't know why, found it funny though.

tell your fiance he's a clique...then tell him you're leaving him.

some people want to find a reason to press YDI or be the first one to click it,there is no reason to click it..... dump him FYL

Why are some people freaking out at the idea that the groom was on a wedding diet? Don't you question why it is strange that if a woman says she's on a diet (even if she doesn't need it) no one questions it, but if a guy says he is on a diet- many find it curious? Furthermore, some people are even going so far as to speculate that the 'wedding diet' was the cause of him cheating because he needed approval from someone else? Lastly, people even accused her of being sneaky because she said 'i know your dirty little secret' come on, since when have we not jokingly said that to someone? Excuse me, but that is bull shit! I'm sure any guy is man enough to eat healthier prior to his wedding, shouldn't he look his best too? All couples I know who have gotten married would both go on diets TOGETHER and exercise like crazy because they wanted to look their best (although the bride always looks the best :) ). Clearly his path to cheating had nothing to do with the 'wedding diet' it was because he was a shit hole, period. There is never an excuse for cheating. Lets face it, if the roles were reversed and it was the woman cheating many of you would have jumped on the *****-calling- wagon and never thought twice that it was a 'diet' that ruined it. Why? Cause you're programmed to think that diets and women go hand-in-hand while men and diets are polar opposites and repel each other. Stop being hypocritical and see what is in front of you for a change. OP dump his lame ass and use what you saved up for the wedding to go down south and party!

the fact that u made him diet for just a wedding probably drove him to cheat xD

Wedding diet, cheating, something is out of balance. Sounds like YDI.

Well YDI if you put him on the diet and confronted him about eating pizza like it was some big serious thing.

People go on wedding diets all the time, especially if they bought their dress or tux with the intention of losing weight, which many people do. Excuse her for wanting the both of them to be a little fit on their wedding day. If this is real, I feel for you.