yeah. things like that should never be said. guys cheat because they want a little excitement cuz they know it's "wrong". that or she's really hot. your own damn fault for saying something so stupidly open-ended. would you be happier if he came out of the closet to that instead?

Ok when you ask a question like that what response did you expect?

OH my goodness.

i TOTALLY agree with #136!! OP never said she put her fiance on the diet and they probably WERE on it together. And it sounded more like she would just jokingly saying "i know your little secret" but at the same time, still wanting him to not cheat on the diet that they had agreed on. FYL for sure!

correction--i meant #135, not 136!! (two *completely* different ideas in those posts!! lol)

Hey ppl need their sex maybe you just not putting out enough. You should try something new maybe a 3 some spice it up

sucks that you found out that way, and sort of ydi for the phrasing... but still, fyl.

Seriously, what the **** to all the people claiming that she deserves it. How can you assume that she's a horrible, nagging, henpecking Bridezilla just because he's on a diet? Maybe it was his choice, or maybe they're on a diet together. How can you assume that she was being accusing and controlling? It sounds like she was joking with the "little secret" thing. Nobody deserves to be cheated on. Stop making excuses for the man, he's a total dick for doing that for the woman he's supposed to marry. #63, you completely disgust me. If people are unhappy in their relationship, they should either work with their partner or get the **** out. If they put the effort they're using to cheat into their relationship instead, people would be a lot happier.

your always putting the best fml's by the way i think u should dump his ass

At least you found out before making the mistake of marrying the chauvinist pig.