He actually may have been jealous of this guy & tried to see if HE was gay and if he could get him away from you. The commitment issues may come from something else with his parents, perhaps. Or he just might be gay. I've never been in that situation, but I hear you. But life will go on; I promise you that.

hmmm... did you ever think of talking to your bf about the relationship instead of doing something sneaky to make him jealous? This sounds like something that would happen on Hannah Montana or some other teeny-bopper show. I'm surprised all your friends are getting married, how old are you?

I don't usually say this, but this one's gotta be FAKE. I just saw one VERY similar to this the other day. How do copy-cats like these even get through??

Loves it!

Part FYL (for finding out about the gay bf) part YDI for going in a convoluted path to get things out of him instead of trying to go directly to him and communicate. Why does no one seem to understand that as cliche as it is, communication is the MOST IMPORTANT PART of a relationship?

this sounds fake imo

Marriage aint that great, for the most part.

@34 I'm not angry at women who want to get married, I am bothered by people who are represented by the third part of your response which is part of my 'playing princess for the day'(or knight for the day) argument. Failure is only the rule in marriages that exist for the wrong reasons there is nothing wrong with trying to secure a lifelong mate that will make both of your lives easier in child rearing and general life. But because her friends are doing it she wants it too, keeping up with your friends is not a reason to get married.

Hey who knows... maybe he knew it was you! :)

It sounds like he is using you as his girlfriend for appearances -- you know, so he looks straight.