First off, pretending to be something to make a good impression on others is not a sacrifice that anyone should make. Be your true self, don't pose and pretend, and people may start appreciating you more because you are doing things that fit your true nature, and therefore things that you are good at/work well for you. I've seen so many people just fail completely at life simply because they try to do things that don't fit their nature simply to impress others. Secondly, isn't it good that you now know of your boyfriends true nature? You see, he was pretending to be something he's not, and you have even noticed that it feels unnatural, and it's just not working out. Isn't it better this way, rather than getting married with someone who is not even attracted to you? Think of it as a good thing. YDI, because you deserve to have the knowledge necessary to not make mistakes that will haunt you for the rest of your life. Good luck with honesty and bettering your life. If you keep living this way, then FYL.

HA HA HAHA HAHA HA #24 + #25 hit this one out of the park! Kudos to you two : D @ OP - My gut tells me that he knew it was you and was trying to **** with you for being a manipulative bitch. If not, even better!!! I hope he finds the perfect man for him and invites you to the wedding so you can see what true love is and the REAL purpose of marriage. YDI 1000% but also FYL because DAMN YOU ARE PATHETIC!!! Honest conversation > Manipulation learn that or you will never be happy.

Obviously he is messing with you. Your fake guy probably only had you as a friend. Do you if he was gay and hiding it he would hit on a guy knowing you would see it on his wall?

YDI for making up fake people.

YDI for fake Facebook accounts. Also, YDI for caring so much about what society says your relationship status should be. Astoundingly, there's more to life than getting married.

my question is how your bf decided to start talking to the made up person if he didnt know him. and if it was because "the guy" knew you, your bf obviously would have know you would know about it, if it was on his wall at least. even so...the story doesn't make sense

Look at it this way: Your boyfriend has the hots for you, no matter what your sex is. If that's not true love...

Wow this is a YDI and a FYL in one. YDI for making up an imaginary bf, who does that? It screams desperation because you need a man (even a fake one will do apparently) to feel confident. However FYL for having a gay boy friend who hits on imaginary friends.

#14 all the way. I mean I usually joke about Facebook/ Myspace being an excuse not to actually socialize, but this is proof. I had a myspace for 2 weeks, you know what I got friend invites for? Some pez dispenser, Beer, a few close friends who I have better ways to communicate with anyway, somebody who recognized me from elementary school, and some movie page... AKA nothing I actually give a shit about. I like to *gasp* call friends... maybe email them... and actually see them in person. I stopped visiting and a bunch of people thought I died, which I guess not living on the internet means to some people. I guess it's different being 22 and growing up without these silly social networks.

Jeez-La-Weez-Papa-Cheese... GROW UP!?!?