By Anonymous - 03/03/2016 22:36 - United States - Hampton

Today, I had to attend a meeting with my parents, my teacher, and my bully and his parents. When we started, my bully "broke down" and "tearfully" told the teacher that I was the one bullying him, and that he was getting blamed to cover it all up. They believed him. FML
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Same thing different taste

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Damn, there are some real scumbags in the world.

How would the kid even have any evidence to prove you were bullying him if you were the victim

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Potentially he will take the hint at even being summoned to the front to stop bullying you. If not, have a recording device hidden or a friend recording from afar and confront him about it when there are no teachers around to make him behave

I told a guidance counselor in middle school I was being bullied and she never did anything. Just brought the student in and he "apologised". I stopped reporting it after that. I went to a private school (which was grades K-12) and only attended 8th and 9th grade.

Multiple teachers witnessed the verbal bullying but never did anything. They just acted like they never saw anything b/c they knew the kids and the kids' parents. I'm 22 now and suffer depression due to all the bullying. Oh well. -_-

If your getting for something you may as well do it then!

Bullies. Master manipulators. He only way you're going to be taken seriously is if you have audio or video documentation of his shit. You're gonna need some help on this one.

OP I am so sorry. FYL indeed. From a former bullying victim to another, it may suck right now but I can promise you it always gets better. I was the kid that was bullied and when you have zero friends and zero witnesses but they have a dozen who will go along with their lies it feels hopeless. Your bully is a true sociopath. All I can say is perhaps try to get some evidence, talk to a counsellor, constantly inform people about it. If you stay silent he wins. Don't let him win. Fight! Don't give up, It will get better. I promise.

I also struggled a lot with bullying as a kid. The only bully I ever forgave was the one who realized what she did wrong, and apologized to me one day our freshman year of high school. By the end of her apology we were both on the verge of tears, and we ended up making amends.

Why did your teacher have to be there if not as a witness? I'm sure that somewhere along the way, someone witnessed something. It's sad that others are too scared to tell what they see.

Sathane 21

I'm sure there are many witnesses that can vouch for you.

it happens op, my brother and I know all too well. My younger cousin was punched in the stomach and my brother took the kid to the ground in retaliation. All three got detention. I guess being punched in the stomach lands you in detention these days. And when I was in school a girl started talking shit about my mom so I gave her a light warning slap to the shoulder, I made sure to do it as light as I could because I didn't want to hurt her despite her being a jerk. That resulted in her kicking me in the leg as hard as she could and landing us both in detention. Ironically we bonded over the fact that we both hated detention and after that she never bugged me again.

I hate to resort to getting back at the bully. But they usually have friends they're showing off for who probably wouldn't think it was so cool that he cried "like a baby ". And definitely try to get proof