Op, you're not a loser. In fact it's admirable. You're brother is for bragging and being a dick.

Awe you should let him get you down, i lost my virginity at fifteen to an asshole who destroyed my heart nearly a year later. He was cheating the whole time. Be proud that you're waiting for the right girl. If I was your age and met you, someone who had held out from kissing a girl, I would find it the sweetest thing ever, to know you were all mine, and not anyone else's ever.

Don't worry, you'll find that special someone someday. And OP? **** 'em.

Trust me, you're winning! :)

Did I miss something? When did being a virgin get frowned upon? I'd like to go back being a virgin wasn't something you make fun of someone for being.

Well, I mean, he's obviously very functional. Though unless you're waiting for your religion to kiss someone I would get on that. It's a tad weird, not sure why everyone thinks it's sweet.

I was almost 19 before I lost my virginity. So don't sweat it. When you meet the right one you will know. :) also I hope that your brother knows about safe sex. To many under aged kids having babies nowadays.

Sorry your brother is a dick, but not having any relationship experience at 25 isn't a good sign. People tend to look at past relationships as resumes and to be getting close to 30 with no experience is going to make things harder unless you are in the same boat. If it's intentional fine, but that more than likely come back to bite you unless you marry someone extremely understanding or in the same boat. Given the fact it hurt that much I"m guessing it isn't intentional and you might want to the think about what you might be doing wrong.

what a *****

I lost my virginity at the same age as your brother, I invy you for your strength of will. When it bothers you, remember this. You can become like your brother any day of the week, but he can never be like you again.